Can't beleive I did, but I DID...I went and visited the eharmony site, it was a free weekend. Well see a guy on there from my town. We started chatting. I like it. Hasn't gone far at all, just talking about our kids and etc. Just nice to talk to someone. To have a new friend. BUT I am still married until October. It's been 2 years in coming now and I just can't wait. He's totally moved on. Why is this an issue for me. I'm sorry but it gives me that tiny bit of hope that there actually could be a guy out there that would like a lady with 3 kids. That I may have someone in my future - however far away that is. Just talkin'. Anyone else do this too?