my ectopic

[cryssroxxx]

Cryss Rox

my ectopic story: i was in pain and spotting, so i went to the dr, the dr said: every thing looks ok down there, so let me go check your urine. she come back and sais your pregnant, i was so happy, i called my husband in the room and he was so happy, the dr said the bleeding may be from the baby latching on. Ok went the dr a week later so the dr can see how i am doing, he notices i have pain when he pushes down on the left side of my belly, i said could it be an ectopic he sais i dont know lets send u for an ultra sound. alright I am in the ultra sound room waiting to hear my babys heart beat, the tech starts doing her thing and she sais the words, there is nothing in the uterus, those words were like a hot knife going through my heart. My husband sais: i dont understand why you r crying we have a wonderful 3yr old son. I understand that we have a 3yr old, thats not the point. Anyway, next stop hospital, I am put to sleep i wake up less one tube

[Gchborthwick]

Im sorry for your loss. Its been a year and 4 months since mine and it still can hurt sometimes.

[mandyjh]

So sorry for your loss, hang in there.

[cindy82]

i'm so sorry for your loss. just because u have one already doesnt mean this one hurts any less. I have two children and have lost 5. every one of them hurts even to this day. if you are in need of more support the miscarriage and pregnancy loss support group is more active and many of them have also had ectopic losses. I hope you can heal and find peace with losing this one. Good luck in the future. And if you have any questions or need support feel free to message me.