Well let me start off by sharing my story. I'll try to be brief. Thanks for listening, I mean reading :-)
I found out I was pregnant on a Thursday, just thought to take a test bc. I felt different and my breast were very sore. I told my husband right away, and he was soooo excited. My husband wants like 5. This was our first pregnancy. I had been spotting brown but only a little and I felt fine. We told our immediate family and close friends the next day on Friday and they were totally excited about this baby as well. Anyway, by that Sunday (Fathers day June 17, 2007) I was already in the ER. I got woken up by really bad pain on my right lower ab area going to my back. They did blood tests, ultrasounds and I just prayed and prayed that my baby would be ok. After hours of waiting they came back saying that there is something in the tube that it wasnt a good pregnancy. It was ectopic. I was also bleeding at this point no longer just brown spots. They kept giving me morphine for the pain but it wasnt working. At first the doctor was giving me the option of the pill or injection which dissolves the baby :-( but then said i must go thru surgery bc. the pain was so bad and I could be bleeding internally and it could be life threatening to me. Hearing that doctor was the worst thing I've ever been thru. Its by far the worst moment in my life so far. I lost my baby at 5 weeks pregnant. Well so I went thru the surgery (a laparoscopy) and when the doc was in there decided to take my right tube bc. he said it was damaged and too inflamed and leaving it there can cause another ectopic. I dont know the details of that too much, im still trying to come to terms with everything that happened. I guess if they left the tube scar tissue can form and increase the chances of another ectopic in that tube. This isnt always the case, just the message the doctor was trying to get accross to me. It is now about two months later, and this is still all I think about. It helps to read other woman's experiences and just come here to let our feelings out. Im starting to try again very soon and im terrified. Many blessings and healthy baby dust our way!