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Posted by on Jun. 20, 2010 at 10:46 AM
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Do you get visitors after your homebirth?

I never have.  People visited when I had hospital births.  Just wondering what others' experience was.

Posted by on Jun. 20, 2010 at 10:46 AM
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Trekfan
by New Member on Jun. 23, 2010 at 8:55 AM

That sucks.  I'm sorry to hear that.  If you live within 30 miles of Brookville,OH I'll bring you a meal & would actually be interested in hearing your birth story since I love homebirth& I haven't met any homebirth mommas locally .I can't imagine that folks would feel more comfortable stopping by a hospital than someone's home. Maybe they're trying to give you space or something? Did you send out the mass email?

I was much more willing to have visitors sooner with my second daughter.  With my first I had that neurotic first time mom germ thing going.  With my second, neighbors and family came by the next day & I was fine  with that. 

joyful_mama
by on Jun. 23, 2010 at 9:51 AM

My hubby had a pic of me and babe posted on Facebook just minutes after babe was born.  :)  This is our 8th baby and 3rd homebirth.   I suppose some people might feel weird about visiting at home after a birth, I personally don't get it, but then I am comfortable with the idea of homebirth and lots of people aren't I guess.

http://livinginjoyfulchaos.blogspot.com/2010/06/edward-clarence-birth-story.html

mum2boyz
by New Member on Jun. 24, 2010 at 11:16 PM

I did get visitors but not nearly as many as my hospital births.  mil, bil and sil came to visit.  DH and I have a large family between the both of us so 3 people out of a ton more is nothing.

in love5/24/02  Our family family in the van


My waterbabies ds1- 2/21/03smile big ds2- 9/27/04devlish ds3-6/16/07monkey My home waterbirth dd- 4/16/09smile mini

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