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The Unanswered Prayer

Posted by on Jul. 27, 2011 at 12:45 PM
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Is there such a thing as unanswered prayer? This devotional by Karen Wolff of suggests that every prayer is indeed answered by God, just not always in the way we expect.

The Unanswered Prayer:

It is truly a spiritually mature person who never considers a prayer unanswered. How do they do that? There is so much in life that just seems to happen, regardless of how much we pray.

Our daughter, a 23 year old, special needs young woman, dreams of so many things in her life. She wants what we all want: happiness in life. But the challenges she faces are larger than any you can imagine.

I remember when she was born. At one pound, seven ounces, she arrived three months early. The doctors said she wouldn't see, hear, and probably would have cerebral palsy. But after she was home for about a month we knew the doctors were wrong. Today she hears, (although I know she has selective hearing based on the number of chores she's supposed to be doing), she sees out of one eye, and doesn't have cerebral palsy.

But developmentally she is delayed and life is hard for her.

Unanswered Prayers?

I've prayed for our daughter more than any other person in my life. I've prayed that she would be healed completely. I've prayed that she would receive wisdom and strength and the ability to discern in life situations. It seems like many of those prayers have gone unanswered. But are they really unanswered or is God using our daughter's life to stretch my faith?

Everyone has people in their life that God uses to make changes in them. I can honestly say our daughter is that person for me. In fact, some days I feel like he's inventoried me, found every imaginable defective part, and then sends in my daughter to help "bring them out of me." It's that "bringing out" part that causes the trouble.

I heard Joyce Meyer, one of my favorite teachers, say that we always pray for God to change our circumstances when God actually uses our circumstances to change us. I must say that yes, I've been changed. God has used our daughter's situation to develop patience, (at least most days), trust, and faith that he's got a plan no matter how things look.

Okay, so I've asked God if I can give him input about how the plan should turn out. And yes, I've asked him to send a timetable just so we're all on the same page. I'm pretty sure I saw God rolling his eyes about that last one.

There is a song by Mercy Me called, "Bring the Rain." When I first heard that song I couldn't even imagine how much spiritual maturity it would take for someone to sing:

    Bring me joy, bring me peace
    Bring the chance to be free.
    Bring me anything that brings You glory.
    And I know there'll be days
    When this life brings me pain,
    But if that's what it takes to praise You
    Jesus, bring the rain.

I don't know many people who are at that place in their journey. As I see my faith stretched daily, I hope I can eventually come to the place where I can say, "God, I want what you want. If what I want isn't what you want, then change my mind."


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by Group Admin on Jul. 27, 2011 at 12:52 PM

 I have at times wondered if He hears my prayers, and for some reason I just felt the urge to look up devotionals about answered prayers and this popped up. For the past year I have questioned God more times then I care to admit, however I think He had me look up these devotionals for a reason, and I got from it everything I needed.

I have some health issues that only a few people closest to me know about, and for a year I have been expecting a miracle. Each time I have gone to the doctors I have expected them to say "Your fine, we cant find anything, everything is gone, its a miracle!" but I have not heard those words and started to feel discouraged. Trying to find a doctor who was willing to treat me also wasnt easy, but I now know that I needed to learn patience, and this was Gods way of teaching me to not give up and to be patient. Just as I was ready to throw in the towel, I got a doctor who is willing to treat me like a human. There is no 100% guarantee that treatment will take care of my health situations, but I have faith in Him that He will heal me. The circumstances in my life, good and bad, He has used to better me as a person and to better my life as a whole.

This may not make sense to some people, however I am sure that at one time or another you have known from seeing, hearing or reading something that it was God trying to talk to you and to let you know He hears you and knows your needs. I have such a sense of peace now. I am still nervous about the next coming weeks but I trust that He will be with me every step of the way, and I hope others got as much out of this devotional as I did. God Bless!

by on Jul. 28, 2011 at 2:20 AM
This is so true! I used to pray for the same things over and over again thinking that my prayers were not be answered, then I learned that God always answers but just not always in the way I expected.
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by on Jul. 28, 2011 at 7:55 AM

Thank you for sharing this.  Yes God does answer.  Waiting is hard.  The Lord does see all, the circumstances now, and the outcome.  He knows just when to answer, and how to answer, for our good.  He really loves us.  God bless you and your special daughter.  Jesus loves you both.  Mary          Romans 8:28  And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose.

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