Basically, I want to just be able to go on with my life like "normal" except when he's home, it's hard to just want to go out with friends with the kids. Seems like we should be spending time with him. How do you manage that?
Also, I'm finding that when he comes home, all I want to do is dump the kids on him. Of course, he's tired as well. And needs some space. So how do you manage that?