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Was Your Children Planned or Not and did they come before or after Marriage?

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Did your babies come after marriage or before and were they planned or not?


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by on Sep. 11, 2007 at 5:48 PM
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by on Sep. 14, 2009 at 4:34 PM

they were planned and they came before marriage I was 16 and 18 I know we were crazy

by on Oct. 24, 2009 at 12:48 PM

None of ours were planned, just gifts. The oldest was 1 1/2 when we married, but the other two were born after. The middle was actually concieved on my wedding night! embarrassed mini

by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 11:05 AM

My dd...Got pregnant before marriage(Got married during pregnancy)...She wasnt planned

Pregnant with #2...before marriage(got married during pregnancy)...he/she wasn't planned

lol im seeing a pattern here

by on Nov. 20, 2009 at 1:20 PM

Well ours was a lil of both, its pretty amusing!! We had been living together for over a year we both wanted to have a baby  we decided to try. I went to the Dr. to get checked do some test to see if everything was okay for us to start trying. Imagine our surprise when my gyn comes back in after the urine test and says "I have bad news and good news, the bad news is you can't get pregnant right now because the good news is you are already pregnant!!! A beautiful surprise and also a great blessing!!!!!  We got married a year after our baby was born. We planned to get married since we started living together but agreed not to until both of our families had the opportunity to be at our wedding. He is from Mexico where all his family lives, he is the only one here, and all my family is here, but are orginally mexican. So together with my family and his family decided that we would save some money so we could all go down there for a vacation and get married!!!!!!! And it worked perfectly since my in-laws had the opportunity to also meet their first grandson!!! And my mom had the chance to visit her mom and sisters she had not seen for years!!!

by New Member on Nov. 24, 2009 at 12:01 AM

we both already had kids and trying to have our 1st together

by on Sep. 25, 2010 at 6:04 PM

IM preganant now with our first, we tried over two years to get her! Definitly planned after we got married

by on Sep. 25, 2010 at 6:09 PM

marriage came first then 2 years later came our son, now 2 more years later our daughter will be here in January.

by on Oct. 13, 2010 at 7:05 PM
My husband and I had known each other for 4 years and had been together as a couple for 2 months when we found out I was pregnant. Big Shocker & not planned. We got married in 2009 and 8 months later I got pregnant again. This time planned. =)
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by New Member on Nov. 13, 2010 at 1:53 AM


a month and a half after marriage

by Member on May. 3, 2012 at 3:43 PM

 First one was while we were engaged and living together, but not married, and still in school (obviously not planned). Second was years after being married, and totally planned. Third was a total surprise - thought we were done having kids - but one, wild, drunken night...

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