ok there is this a woman who is kind of related to me she is my husbands cousins wife. well last weekend was the family reunion. we were at the park and in the pool with our children, i have3 and she has 2. I was sitting on the edge of the kiddi pool so my older kids could play, she was sitting next to me complaining that her husband was going off of the diving board and playing chicken and things like that, because she wanted to be the one who didn't have to watch her kids. she was so busy complaining that she didn't even notice her two year old was face down in the pool. i tried to get her attention and her father in law was yelling her name trying to get her to look but she just rambled on. so i jumped in the water in my clothes, and holding my 5 month old out of the water, to try to get her little girl out of the water. thankfully the life guard was there and she helped me get her out of the water. this mom didn't even know her daughter was drowning until the life guard handed her back to her mom. i am not perfect by any means but omg so people do not pay attention they are too worried about what they want to do. am i totally out of line for being frustrated with her?