You know, I love my DH, I really do. But there are weeks like this when I just don't understand him. This week, had the potential to be great, but it wasn't. In so many ways. My birthday, our anniversary, and his birthday were all this week. And we did nothing. I mean I cooked dinner, pulled out the good china, bought a bottle of wine for our anniversary, and did my utmost to make his birthday special - considering both of us had to work and couldn't really celebrate until he got home around 6:30 p.m. Today, it's like he woke up, looked at me, and couldn't stand me. He's been so stand-offish since he woke up this morning. We ended up having a heated discussion before he left this morning. I assume 12 hours later we'd be over it, get to relax together, enjoy the fact that it was Friday. Nope, he comes home, still stand-offish. I ask him what's wrong - he says nothing. I try to cuddle w/ him on the couch and he shifts away. He spends all evening in the bedroom w/ the door closed. When I come up, he leaves the room. Any suggestions, Ladies? I'm not offering nookie, b/c he's turned me down twice this week. He's going to have to bring it up if he wants it.
Thanks for listening.