Hi! I really need to vent and talk to other moms going through the same thing that I am. Up until Jan/Feb my husband never had any phsyciatric problems. He held a job, was a hard worker and a good provider. We had our issues and he could be very mean but I never worried about his ability to work. In February we had our 3rd child and he had a physcotic epidsode in the delivery room where security had to be called and he had to be sedated in the emergency room. I was shocked and could not understand how this could have happened. We were also in the process of buying a new house. He progressively got better and all seemed to be returning to somewhat normal. Then in the same two week period his job became extremely stressful, we had to move because we sold our house but we hadn't closed on our new house yet so we had to move to a temporary apartment. When this all happened at the same time he became clinically depressed. He could get up and go to work but he is a mess and at home he just lies around. Now we have closed on our new house. I have been cleaning it up and working to get it ready to move into. I also have a very stressful job and 3 kids. He does nothing. He sits around at the new house and watches me, he complains that he has to mow the lawn and he does NOTHING at work. I can handle him doing nothing at home but I know that inevitably he is going to lose his job. We cannot afford this new house if he loses his income. I would have to go to full time hours but it still wouldn't be enough. I feel like I am going to collapse from the exhaustion of taking care of everything and then not sleeping because of the stress. I feel like I'm doing all this work for nothing because in a few months I'm going to have to pack up us all up again because we won't be able to keep the house. I don't know how we ended up here. To this point we have provided a stable home for our kids and now I feel like their future stability and home is in jeopardy. I never wanted this for my kids and I don't know how I am going to do this by myself. I don't know how I can stay with him if he is not contributing anything. I don't know how this happened.