Things have boiled over.

[KrystalRhea]

I don't know if anyone still gets on here, but I thought I'd let you know that things have completely boiled over here... Back in April, we had a pretty eventful week: Tues night, my husband started accusing me of things again. I tried my best to ignore him. Managed to get to sleep in my son's room. We didn't talk wed. He kept saying he wanted a divorce. Thurs, he mentioned counceling, but only because the kids were too young for us to get a divorce. we managed to watch a movie together.  that night he didn't take it too well, when i turned him down for sex. All the outlandish accusations started again. I ignored him for a while, but then finally called him a bastard (which is something he takes way too personnally because he's the offspring of a rape)...... well, he grabbed me by the throat and slammed me against the wall. There were atleast 4 times that I couldn't breath. I started calling for the kids and he let up and i was able to get out of the room. I called the cops. he was arrested.  And it's been a total mess since then.  He stayed at his moms at first bc we thought there was a no contact clause in his bond.  but there's not and about a week ago I let him come back to the house.  He doesn't even remember what happened. 

I'm trying to get him into a defferment program with mandetory anger management classes so the case doesn't go to trial and he's supposed to start seeing a psychiatrist on his own. But his mood changes daily still.  One day he's a responsible father and loving husband, the next he's depressed, lazy and grumpy with everyone.   NOW WHAT DO I DO??? He's never seen a psychiatrist about bipolar... just a counselor told him that she thought he had it. I don't want this to be the end, but if i start telling him that i think he's Bipolar schizophrenic and needs meds, he's going to get pissed at me because i'm not a dr. He has looked for a psychiatrist, but won't make an appointment bc there's a 2 month wait.  Blah..

[Ladywithtwo]

Hey, I'm glad there is still someone in this group!
It's been a while since your post, how are things now?