Hi, I'm Sharon, and I have a hard time being a supportive wife sometimes! I always have some kind of negative thought, like why is this happening to us? or him... Why? Why? Why? I just joined this site, and seen this group and reading all of you ladies post, is helping a bit and I've already started smiling.
My husband is a disabled veteran, he just retired out the mil May 27th, and and up to a week ago he was jobless, and we we're having a rough time! He got a job @ a chicken plant. Well he has worked full one week, and he works midnights - 8am! It's hard on him, and us (me, and our son) He has a bad back, and sleeping problem, and PTSD, and his back is just getting worse! He was classified from the VA (veterans affair) as a 80% veteran! Well he's just getting worse and worse, and I told him to quit, I know he doesn't want too, but soon enough he won't be able to play with our son, or do anything like his father and I don't want that, if I have to I'll get a real job then doing (Scentsy) but I don't want him hurting than he already is! He kept saying we can't afford to fall behind on our bills.. I understand that. I really do... but what about our son, your whole life. I've been looking for a job so he can quit, but I'm still looking and calling and putting in applications....
any advice? He can go for unemployment and all but that takes forever to process they said, and we have bills, and other stuff... and he can do social security but it takes a while too!!! Maybe some insight please? Thank you all for listening.


- HuntersMommaxx
on Aug. 7, 2011 at 11:08 PM