I have a 9-month-old son and 6-year-old daughter. Their birthday is the same which is 01-03-09. I'm looking for suggestions on how to do this because of the age difference. Besides that, my daughter is by my ex-husband and of course my son is from my current so the invitation list would be different if I decided to have parties. I've always had parties for my daughter but I am thinking of doing a girls night out thing with a friend of her choice to Disney on Ice or something of that nature. For my son I thought I might do a small party maybe before I took my daughter out since it's his first birthday but I would still have to have cake for my daughter too somehow. I'm open for suggestions. At this point I'm overwhelmed and my husband is partial to my son and always feels like I'm doing more for my daughter so I'm looking for something fair.