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Will an older child's speech problems affect a younger sib?

Posted by on Jun. 15, 2012 at 12:10 AM
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My dh asked me this tonight. Our just turned 5 year old is on a 2 year old level for articulation and a 3 year old level for language. Our LO just turned 2, and he is talking really well, uses 4-5 word sentences.My dh is worried that the older one's poor articulation will rub off on him and wonders how to prevent it.
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sahm2shaina
by New Member on Jun. 17, 2012 at 7:58 PM
It's not something that can be "rubbed off" - we have 4 kids and only one with a speech disorder - each kids develops at their own rate :)
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Malley
by on Jun. 17, 2012 at 11:30 PM
He is worried that the LO will pick up his incorrect way of speaking. He mimics everything big brother does, even uses the same expressions. I know he isn't going to have a speech disorder, but will he mimic the incorrect usage? For example, our 5 year old still says "Me" for "I" .
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beepbop1
by New Member on Aug. 6, 2012 at 2:36 AM

Actually siblings can imitate incorrect syntax (grammar) or articulation (sound errors) from older siblings HOWEVER this is usually attributed to a genetic predisposition (usually a family history of communication delay) rather than just simple modeling.  Therefore, if your 2 year old is already surpassing your older one in language it is highly unlikely that he/she would regress in that area.  If your 2 year old is exhibiting the same speech sound errors there may be a genetic pattern there, or it could be that at the age of 2 those misarticlations are in fact developmental but by the age of 5 are not.  Am I making sense here?  As for the simple "I/me" confusion...most two year olds do incorrectly use me and I so as long as you are modeling the correct use and your 2 year old continues to develeop language this will most likely reslove itself.

If you want to be sure about your 2 year old's development check out my blog Communication Station: Speech Therapy, PLLC titled "Is my Child Delayed?" at http://communicationstationspeechtx.blogspot.com/2012/07/is-my-child-delayed.html   you'll find a communication (language and hearing milestones) checklist as well as a graphic for typical articulation skills to determine if your child's current communication skills are developmental.

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nenedawn
by Member on Aug. 14, 2012 at 12:40 PM
My 3yr has not had any effect at all on his lil brother who is 2 and talks like a champ
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