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Disappointed again...

Posted by on Nov. 13, 2010 at 8:44 PM
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Well, we are having our fourth boy. Rythm, changing of our diets, positioning during intercourse, and making DH heat up his area before intercourse didn't work.

Since I am once again having issues during my pregnancy, this is our last pregnancy most likely. I might be able to plead with DH in a year or two after Bean is born, but Bean is most definately a boy (I have an U/S now every two weeks and see my OB every week because of my complications). I didn't want to believe it at the first U/S, but now at 24 weeks it is a boy for sure. If I cannot convince DH to let me try again than we are going to adopt a little girl starting in a years time (since the process can take a while).

I give everyone else here baby dust and pink thoughts!

baby dustbaby girl

Posted by on Nov. 13, 2010 at 8:44 PM
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Rie03
by Member on Nov. 14, 2010 at 7:37 AM

 Congrats on your baby boy! I'm sorry you didn't get your baby girl :( I have 3 boys myself, so I understand the disappointment.

Kenre
by Member on Nov. 14, 2010 at 12:52 PM


Quoting Rie03:

 Congrats on your baby boy! I'm sorry you didn't get your baby girl :( I have 3 boys myself, so I understand the disappointment.

If I wasn't so high risk, I guess it wouldn't be so bad. I just can't do this again. We have already had so many complications with each one.

There is probably a little girl out there somewhere (or there will be one) who needs a good home with lots of love and we'll adopt her instead and bring her into our lives that way.

AidanCamsMom
by on Nov. 14, 2010 at 3:14 PM

I'm so sorry you didn't get your girl, but CONGRATS on a healthy baby boy!

ajzuell
by Member on Nov. 14, 2010 at 3:51 PM

Congrats i feel you!  I'm pregnant with boy #6 and swear by a good girl sway i did. I fee a boy well all boys were meant to be for me.  Now my main focus is just a healthy little man.  I'm not as bitter now as i was before, I'm actually getting excited because I'm gonna be bringing another life into this world!

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Mommy8271120
by Bronze Member on Nov. 14, 2010 at 10:53 PM
God gives you boys because you are so great with them. Congratulations!
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iwantwins
by New Member on Nov. 16, 2010 at 8:42 PM

 Sorry that you didn't get the daughter that you wanted.  I feel the same way that you do, if I can't conceive a daughter this time around I am seriously considering adopting one. 

Kaybean
by Group Owner on Nov. 18, 2010 at 5:09 PM

I'm sorry that you didn't get your girl. That must be so disappointing when you tried so hard. The good news though, is that you're having a healthy baby boy and adopting a girl would be so awesome of you guys!

 

mom3bc
by Member on Nov. 18, 2010 at 7:39 PM

Congrats Your going to have Fun with 4 boys.. I love my 3 and if god bless me with another boy.. Ill be Just as happy. Im bless to be able to have kids. 

chocolat-smiles
by New Member on Nov. 18, 2010 at 7:43 PM

im sorryhope all goes well this pregnancy

shell1m
by on Nov. 19, 2010 at 12:28 AM

awww, I'm so sorry mama.  (((hugs)))  I have 3 boys also and I have high risk pregnancies also.  We are trying for a girl and this too will be my last since I am high risk, so I know how you feel.  You are right about a little girl needing you, she's out there (or will be) and will love having you for a mommy.  :) 

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in lovetoddler boytoddler boy  baby boy

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