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Sway Attemps and Outcomes! New post 7-13-12..come check this out please.

Posted by on Jul. 13, 2012 at 11:48 PM
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I think this post will really help a lot of women with their sway attempts. This is going to be a sticky post for moms who have their BFP or have already had their baby, to post what they did for their sway attempts. If gender is not yet known, but you are pregnant, just leave the gender portion as unknown or to be determined and update when you find out. If you have already had the baby, please include the gender. Here are the fields to fill out. Please quote or copy and paste this format and fill out as many sections as you can. This will give moms ideas for what things to try and what things seem to work or not work. Thanks!

Your age/DH or SO's age:

Timing method (cut off before O, O+12, no timing method used):

Diet (girl diet, no diet changes, avoiding only certain foods):

Supplements and amounts for you:

Supplements and amounts for him:

Sexual position:

Lubricants used if any (Sylk, etc):

Did you use Chinese Calendar, Moon Phase or Biorhythm:

Did you use any douches or vaginal mixes:

Did he abstain or frequent release (or neither):

Did you do cm and/or cervical checks:

How soon before TTC did you start supplements/diet changes:

How did you track ovulation (OPK, BBT, digital tester, etc):

Your PH before attemps:

His PH before attemps:

Big O or not:

Number of months TTC before BFP:

Any other info:

Gender result:

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connorsmama06
by Member on Sep. 6, 2012 at 9:36 AM
Quoting Kaybean:

I think this post will really help a lot of women with their sway attempts. This is going to be a sticky post for moms who have their BFP or have already had their baby, to post what they did for their sway attempts. If gender is not yet known, but you are pregnant, just leave the gender portion as unknown or to be determined and update when you find out. If you have already had the baby, please include the gender. Here are the fields to fill out. Please quote or copy and paste this format and fill out as many sections as you can. This will give moms ideas for what things to try and what things seem to work or not work. Thanks!


Your age/DH or SO's age:

dh 29 I was 24

Timing method (cut off before O, O+12, no timing method used)did not use trimming

Diet (girl diet, no diet changes, avoiding only certain foods):

none

Supplements and amounts for you:

none

Supplements and amounts for him:

none

Sexual position:

no clue

Lubricants used if any (Sylk, etc):

none

Did you use Chinese Calendar, Moon Phase or Biorhythm:

no

Did you use any douches or vaginal mixes:

no

Did he abstain or frequent release (or neither):

no

Did you do cm and/or cervical checks:

no

How soon before TTC did you start supplements/diet changes:

did nt use any

How did you track ovulation (OPK, BBT, digital tester, etc):

no

Your PH before attemps:

don't know

His PH before attemps:

don't know

Big O or not:


Number of months TTC before BFP:

2

Any other info:

we did nothing different this time around. Did everything the same as our boys.

Gender result:


my mini me perfect baby girl. She is nw 6 months
taterdudemom
by New Member on Sep. 8, 2012 at 1:36 PM

What is Dh

Kaybean
by Group Owner on Sep. 8, 2012 at 1:39 PM
Dear husband.


Quoting taterdudemom:

What is Dh


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mom3bc
by Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:41 PM

28& 28

day before and day of O

no diet

no supplements for him or I

missonary position 

no lube 

no calendar

no douches 

no cervical checks 

diet changed 4 weeks before due to trying to lose weight 

Had Big O

ttc 2 months 

did everything i did before had 3 boys, nothing was different 

Results : Girl 








mom3bc
by Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 2:49 PM


Quoting Allebas:

By you doing the deed up to 2 days prior to ovulation, and you did NOT have the BIG O, you actually increased your chances that you would have a girl!! My DH and I had sex two days prior to ovulation and we did missionary position. I did NOT have the BIG O and we got our baby GIRL!! The closer to ovulation that you have sex, the better the chance of having a boy! The BIG O in the woman, actually helps propel the sperm faster giving the male sperm an advantage! SOOOO---without the BIG O, the sperm have a longer, harder 'road to travel' so-to-speak! So glad you got your girl! 

We dtd the day before and the day of O and i had the Big O and i still end up having a girl 

Allebas
by Member on Dec. 11, 2012 at 5:33 PM


Quoting mom3bc:


Quoting Allebas:

By you doing the deed up to 2 days prior to ovulation, and you did NOT have the BIG O, you actually increased your chances that you would have a girl!! My DH and I had sex two days prior to ovulation and we did missionary position. I did NOT have the BIG O and we got our baby GIRL!! The closer to ovulation that you have sex, the better the chance of having a boy! The BIG O in the woman, actually helps propel the sperm faster giving the male sperm an advantage! SOOOO---without the BIG O, the sperm have a longer, harder 'road to travel' so-to-speak! So glad you got your girl! 

We dtd the day before and the day of O and i had the Big O and i still end up having a girl 

HMMM!!! WOW!!! That is crazy!!

Kaybean
by Group Owner on Dec. 11, 2012 at 5:51 PM
That's because there's always about a 50/50 chance anyway, so having sex on O day and having a big O will still result in girls about 50% of the time. That's what's awesome about wanting a certain gender. If you don't want to sway much, you still have a chance of what you want. O+12 has the BEST success rate for girls though. Cut off is better than having sex on O day, but O+12 is even better yet.


Quoting Allebas:



Quoting mom3bc:




Quoting Allebas:


By you doing the deed up to 2 days prior to ovulation, and you did NOT have the BIG O, you actually increased your chances that you would have a girl!! My DH and I had sex two days prior to ovulation and we did missionary position. I did NOT have the BIG O and we got our baby GIRL!! The closer to ovulation that you have sex, the better the chance of having a boy! The BIG O in the woman, actually helps propel the sperm faster giving the male sperm an advantage! SOOOO---without the BIG O, the sperm have a longer, harder 'road to travel' so-to-speak! So glad you got your girl! 


We dtd the day before and the day of O and i had the Big O and i still end up having a girl 


HMMM!!! WOW!!! That is crazy!!


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Shynar
by New Member on Mar. 6, 2013 at 4:20 PM

i will try this for a girl...

ajzuell
by Bronze Member on Mar. 10, 2013 at 12:54 PM



Quoting Kaybean:


Your age/DH or SO's age: 31&32

Timing method (cut off before O, O+12, no timing method used): BD at + OPK

Diet (girl diet, no diet changes, avoiding only certain foods):  Was on it in Jan took a break Feb. wasn't planning to start back the diet till March but got BFP instead. I did eat/drink some girly foods.

Supplements and amounts for you: ViatminC,Acidophlis,folic acid,Vitex,Metformin

The Vitex really worked! it is slow acting. i took it for 5 months before BFP. This BFP cycle i noticed way higher temps! 

Supplements and amounts for him: none

Sexual position: missonary

Lubricants used if any (Sylk, etc): RePhresh day before BD and fingertip few minutes after BD

Did you use Chinese Calendar, Moon Phase or Biorhythm: all point to boy :( but biorhythm red critical on O day. Wore a neg ion bracelet. 

Did you use any douches or vaginal mixes: 

Did he abstain or frequent release (or neither): abstain 7 days

Did you do cm and/or cervical checks: yes i had some EWCM not a lot

How soon before TTC did you start supplements/diet changes: 5months

How did you track ovulation (OPK, BBT, digital tester, etc): OPK,BBT. 

Your PH before attempts: not sure, but our combine was high 7 using RePhresh knock it down to at least 4.5 or a little lower even the next day.

His PH before attempts: not sure

Big O or not: not

Number of months TTC before BFP: BFP 9 months after mc

Any other info: i was really trying to lessen my chances of pregnancy by 1 BD, getting up as soon as i was done BD (with my boys i laid in bed most times and fall asleep)  J&D&RePhresh after BD. I am shocked i even got pregnant due to using RePhresh after BD . I've heard so many women say they had to drop RePhresh cause they couldn't get pregnant plus i heard it's not really recommended to use after BD cause it may kill the swimmers but not in my case lol. Oh i also was sick during O which i heard sways girl. I had fever,nausea.  i was also breastfeeding my almost 2yr old.  

 most importantly LOTS and LOTS of praying to God!

Gender result: Just got BFP  i pray this is finally my pink bean after 6 boys fingers&toes crossed! will update later



blue.world
by New Member on Apr. 12, 2013 at 4:52 PM


Your age/DH or SO's age: ...35

Timing method (cut off before O, O+12, no timing method used):  cut off 3 date before ovulation

Diet (girl diet, no diet changes, avoiding only certain foods): girl diet 

Supplements and amounts for you: ( cranberries , calcium, magnesium )

Supplements and amounts for him: cranberries 

Sexual position: missionary 

Lubricants used if any (Sylk, etc): no

Did you use Chinese Calendar, Moon Phase or Biorhythm: no 

Did you use any douches or vaginal mixes: vinegar douche

Did he abstain or frequent release (or neither): frequent release ( sex everyday for two weeks with cut off 3 days before ovulation ) 

Did you do cm and/or cervical checks: cm checks 

How soon before TTC did you start supplements/diet changes: 6 months 

How did you track ovulation (OPK, BBT, digital tester, etc): opk, bbt, cm charts , saliva test , ph strips 

Your PH before attemps:3

His PH before attemps: we didn't test his PH 

Big O or not: ???

Number of months TTC before BFP: almost 1 year but we started with 5 days cut off and then 4 days and finally i got pregnant with 3 days cut off before O.

Gender result: ............BOY...... !!!!!  ( I'm still in chock ) nothing worked for me !!! Second boy already !!!


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