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Stress

Posted by on Aug. 2, 2012 at 2:24 PM
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Am I the only one who is exteremely stressed over TTC? We have actually never actually tried with any of our 3 boys so now that I am trying I am finding myself extremely stressed, frusterated and about to say screw it! lol! I just needed a little vent ladies, sorry!

Posted by on Aug. 2, 2012 at 2:24 PM
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Jen4boys06
by Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 8:49 AM

I haven't even started TTC yet but just thinking about all you need to do just to increase your chances sounds like alot! And it may not even work anyway! I have 4 boys and would love one more baby.  I want to try to sway but I'm afraid that b/c I tried to sway, I'll be expecting a girl and will be more upset then if I have another boy.  Make sense?  Of course on the other hand, if I do have a 5th boy, I'll always wonder if I would have had a girl had I tried to sway! I feel that I'm destined to have all boys but would really love a baby girl.  Good luck to you and just hoping for a healthy baby!

feralkitten
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 4:04 PM

i'm trying not to stress i use an on line chart that works stuff out for me and is free ! lol

and i have ph strips and ovulashon strips so i can test and stuff i am getting a thomerter to

http://www.fertilityfriend.com

MandaRose83
by Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 4:49 PM

I have been using OPKs since April to track my ovulation and this is our first month trying. I'm stressing over all the little things I think. I'm on day 15 right now and haven't ovulated yet and so I keep thinking we still have to BD and when are we gonna find the time (between 3 kids , 2 of which are crawling into our bed at all ours of the night you never know when one will show up). So I stress over that and then I stress well if we don't BD we could miss it but if we wait to BD tomorrow it could be too close to ovulation. I'm just a big wreck of nerves!

feralkitten
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2012 at 5:00 PM

yeah that's a bit of stress we have 4 kids but 2 are  11 and 9 so they don't come in our room and we mostly got are to little ones to sleep threw the night but we do sometimes get a 5 am visits from one getting in our bed lol . this is my 1st month ttc to as i just got my coil out :)

jmama0307
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 5:55 PM

Yes I am a little stress. For one not cause of us TTC after Nov 10 cause we still haven't started more like I want to do it naturally only following fertilityfriend.com and yourdays.com. My diet prob would only consist on grill chicken with rice and salad or chicken salad and yogurt. I am going to start the ending of Oct the diet. I am praying this works. I dreamed 2 days ago of having a little girl and having stuff that said daddy's little girl. I tear up. I really wish I get my pair.

ajzuell
by Bronze Member on Aug. 6, 2012 at 2:06 PM

Oh yes i really really am stress& it's a lot of pressure knowing this will be the last time chance after having 6 boys. I try to stay hopeful but i know the odds are really not in my favor.   I get really sad when i see others finally get their DD, i've been trying 11 years,6 boys later when do i finally get to jump up in down with joy :( 

I keep telling myself "Let go and let God"

MandaRose83
by Member on Aug. 6, 2012 at 2:11 PM

This is what I have been telling myself since yesterday actually because I'm pretty sure we screwed up and BD too close to ovulation so we'll see. I can understand your frusteration. I don't have 6 boys but I have 3 and everybody around me is having girls. My 1st and last sons godmothers both are having girls, I have another close friend who is also expecting a girl. I should be happy for them and I am but there is that little hint of jealousy and I think "why does everyone else get a little girl except me"? I throw a little pitty party for myself in my head lol. I hope you finally get your girl! 

Quoting ajzuell:

Oh yes i really really am stress& it's a lot of pressure knowing this will be the last time chance after having 6 boys. I try to stay hopeful but i know the odds are really not in my favor.   I get really sad when i see others finally get their DD, i've been trying 11 years,6 boys later when do i finally get to jump up in down with joy :( 

I keep telling myself "Let go and let God"


feralkitten
by Bronze Member on Aug. 7, 2012 at 11:32 AM

this is my last change to

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