We DID NOT use Shettle method or girly diet! I've tried Shettle for 7 months- no BFP! I was worried that I can't get pregnant. So we stop using Shettle method and just try to get pregnant- nadda! So we decided to stop trying.
On new year day, I started going to gym and eat right. I've lost 20 lbs within 2 months! One month, I was so stressed with school. We did not DTD for entire month til one early dawn, we had a quickie then I peed right after. And behold BFP!!!
I couldn't believe it! We weren't trying!!
I remember I had EWCM 2 days before so we BD after my O day. I think O +12 works for me. Beside Chinese gender prediction chart was accurated this time. It came true for my first son.
I think biggest part is that I prayed.