How long did you wait after your first before trying again?
I want kids very close in age, mainly because all my siblings are 4/5 years apart and we were never close. I always envied people with siblings that were in the same schools because even if they didnt have friends, they had each other. Growing up I moved alot and went to 12 diff schools. (14 if you include pre-k) I never stayed at a school longer than 2 years.
My ds is 4 month old but i want a girl. dh grew up with 4 brothers, but all my aunts have girls. Only 2 males on my side, my little brother and a male cousin. My cousin has a daughter. lol On his side one older brothe has a girl (and two boys) the rest all boys, including his cousins.
I think my chances of a girl are limited.