Is your relationship a healthy one? What makes it healthy or unhealthy? How do you define a healthy relationship vs an unhealthy one? Are you happy in your relationship now? If you are unhappy, can you be happy in your relationship the way it is or can you change your relationship? As women, are some of us really that afraid of being alone and independent that we settle for less than? Relationships are what we make of them, though they are a 2-way street. If you aren't in the relationship you want to be in, what are you still doing there? That is a question I had to ask myself at one time and once I honestly answered it, I was able to get out of an unhealthy situation and not look back. I am the better for it, as I have learned from my past and will not be doomed to repeat it. If you are in unhealthy cycles, see your control, take control, learn from the past, and break the cycle. I look forward to everyone's answers on these questions.
Margaret Andem, LCSW
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- margaretandem
on Feb. 25, 2008 at 10:40 PM