My daughter's hair is very different from mine and I don't really know what products to put in it. I have tried to avoid the products with petroleum and other ingredients and have opted for more natural products. I've used Carol's Daughter, Shea Moisture, and just plain old coconut oil and her still looks dry. Her hair just seems to soak up anything that's put in it. My daughter's African American daycare provider keeps telling me that her hair is dry and that I need to put "grease" in it. What else can I use in her hair so it isn't so dry? Thanks!