Am I over-reacting?
Hello ladies! Ok I have been with my son's father for 5 years and are expecting our second one soon. But lately, strange things have been going on and I need opinions. First, one night he was going to stay up and watch TV downstairs but me being pregnant and always sleepy said I was going to bed upstairs. So I wake up about an hour later for some reason and realize how quiet it was. So I got up and looked downstairs and he wasn't there. So I walked down and looked in the garage where he sometimes hides out in his "man cave".. but no. So I call him and I ask where are you? He says "Oh you're already awake? Oh well I'm just sitting in my car listening to music." I was like uhh ok, I guess.. g'nite. So I go to bed, he comes to bed a whole hour later. Second, YESTERDAY I always call him when I'm getting off work to see if he has gotten off already to see who will go pick up our son. His job varies and sometimes he gets off sooner. But when I called him, no answer. So I just assume he's still working and go on my way to pick up my son. Well as I'm pulling up to get him, my man calls me and says Oh sorry I had left my job but had to turn back b/c I left my phone there. No biggie. We both get home around the same time and I'm going to give my son a bath when I notice the shower is kind of wet, like someone had used it not that long ago. Also, I notice in the hamper the shirt he had put on in the morning, he was now wearing a dif shirt. But his family was over and I didn't want to confront him while they were there. So I went to bed and he FINALLY came to bed like 3 hours later and I asked him "When did you come home today?" He just says "oh I had some shit to take care of" That did not answer my question. So I just rolled over and went back to sleep. I mean, what do I make of this? I just don't know. Any advice, or opinions would help. Sorry so lengthy. Thanks gals!