It's been a while since I was on the cafemom website following my ectopic pregnancy in March of 2009. I went through losing the baby and the relationship with the father, but am happy to say that I met a wonderful man who came along and picked up all the peices and we are now getting married in less than a month! :)
He is very excited about having children and knows my situation fully, we want to start trying after we are married but I am terrified of having another ectopic and having to have my other tube removed, and then what? I have nightmares on a very consistent basis of getting pregnant and having an ectopic and going through the surgery again. It seems as though everybody around me is getting pregnant and having babies and as happy as I am for them, the news makes me also feel a sense of loss for my uncertainty of having children.
I have made it clear to him that for me to even feel the slightest bit confident in trying I HAVE to speak to a doctor first. So, this is the plan. I guess what I am looking for are any words of wisdom or sucess stories :) I want to know if anybody else has been in my situation and what the process was for them in TTC after their ectopic.
Thank you for any advice you can give me! This site is truly a blessing! :)