Need support first ectopic and just had surgery
On 5/23 I discovered BFP and we were thrilled. But by a week I knew something wasn't right. First ultrasound didn't show anything and my blood levels were going up as they should but I kept bleeding and having pain. I finally convinced to et another U/S on 6/11 and discovered ectopic. Then took shot. My numbers were going down as should but still hurting A LOT. I finally convinced doctor that I needed another U/S on 6/23 and I had a 7cm mass that needed to come out. I was scheduled for surgery the next day. I said what happens if rupture between now and then (doctor kind of blew that question off but said come to certain emergency room). I went back to work to rap things up and started getting HORRIBLE PAIN. Went to E/R where after two shots of morphine the pain was managable but E/R doc said needed to come out then. My on call doc disagreed and then things got weird where they sort of ignored me in hospital. Finally they realized that I needed surgery EARLY morning. I am recovering now and lost one tube. I am so raw with emotion and depressed. It is very hard to function and I need to be a good mommy to the wonderful daughter that I am blessed with. I just needed to hear other stories and some hope that I will be able to have another with only one tube. I am also so confused as to why this happened. Was I just unlucky? The doctor says my other tube looks perfectly healthy but I don't know a lot of answers until I have follow up appointment because was so drugged in hospital that didn't have presence of mind to ask questions. What questions should I ask at appointment? Sorry long for first post but need advise from people that have had an ectopic. I just feel like most people don't understand.