OMG!!! I am so worried that I am going to lose everything I have worked for!! I am not sure of myself anymore. I was lost at first with the 1st baby (05/09), but found my footing. Then the second baby came along (04/10). It was hard but I found my rhythm. Then the 3rd baby came along (02/11) and I am tired!!
I am a landscaper and for the last 3 years I have stepped up to the plate on behalf of the aforementioned babies. I have tapped out my line of credit. I maxed out my one credit card. And I STILL have one more adoption to pay for and I haven't even finished paying off the last two all of the way.
I am looking forward to next spring because I won't get another baby...thank God!! I just need to figure out how to be a good mother and run my business. I now have more debt than I've ever had in my life. If I can just come up with a plan to pull myself out of this situation, I would rest easier.
Anyone know what I should do?
I've tried to hire a nanny, but haven't had good luck, plus now I can't
really afford it anymore:( Sometimes I think I need a husband...long
sigh!! Anyone out there who has 3 babies and has figured it all out?
Can you ask around in your community if anyone knows of a "mother's helper" you could hire part-time?
Sharon
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*A Serious Change of Pace
- UniversalMama
on Nov. 9, 2011 at 10:11 PM