So tired

[joeysmom0325]

My little girl. I just don't know what to do with her anymore. I really don't know how to deal with all of her "moods". She freaks out about her seatbelt not being tight enough or twisted and she will scream at me until I pull over and fix it. Even if it was barely loose or the twist wasn't touching her. And at night she kicks the wall and screams and cries. She talks very good but when I tell her I want her to use her words she usually yells louder. My 5 year old don't know how to deal with it and neither does my 2.5 year old, I don't really know how to explain it to them.   And when we are in public she gets upset and starts yelling and screaming and kicking, everyone looks at me like I am hurting her, And she freaks out about shoes and sandels and wants them off and throws an absolute fit.  She also likes to hide on me and when I go to get her she laughs and runs away.  And she seems to be more "sexual" than she should be. She likes to take all her clothes off and touches herself and I don't know what to do. We are moving in November and there aren't any schools she can get into right now because they are all full. She is getting a psych eval. on the 5th of Sept.  I just need some help and i don't know what to do. Please any advice.

[1team2win]

Oh dear, I am so sorry things are so very tough right now...I've had those times when it just seems nothing is going well and I just can't handle anymore...hang in there. Unfortunately, you can probably anticipate even more stress as you move. It seems as if many of our kiddos experience increases in behavior with transitions. I know mine did at 10 when we moved. It might help if you can try preparing her for the move by talking about it. You'll probably also want to make as much about your new environment familiar as soon as possible. Her things should probably be some of the first put in place and organized to make it seem familiar. While it may seem like a negative that you can't get her in a school right away, it may be too much for her to handle both a new home and a new school in one breath anyway. How old is your daughter? Can you call the school's early intervention or special ed programs and see if there are any home visitation programs you can utilize until something opens up?