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- by on Feb. 22, 2007 at 9:21 PM
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I thought it was just me Carla thinking things were slow around here... Come on ladies ask us questions lots and lots of questions, we do NOT want a slow nothing to talk about group. Where's the passion??
Tracie
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- by on Feb. 25, 2007 at 10:34 AM
- Ok...here is a question. How can I seduce my exhausted husband!? LOL...It's been like a month and I'm starting to get antsy. He's been so tired lately though so I don't even bother to ask or initiate. Our daughter is finally sleeping through the night so it's not like she's keeping us up. Any suggestions?
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- by on Feb. 25, 2007 at 6:41 PM
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Quoting mla578:
Ok...here is a question. How can I seduce my exhausted husband!? LOL...It's been like a month and I'm starting to get antsy. He's been so tired lately though so I don't even bother to ask or initiate. Our daughter is finally sleeping through the night so it's not like she's keeping us up. Any suggestions?
Why don't you start before he comes home exhausted? For instance before he leaves for work put a love story involving the 2 of you in his lunch box or brief case? Before he gets home have a meal waiting for him? Passion Parties has a great cookbook called INTERCOURSES it has a lot of great meal ideas that contain natural aphrodisiacts (?sorry about my spelling) in them, then make sure your bedroom is set up for romance have some sweet smelling candles burning, maybe leave a fav. toy ,edible , or lube out for him to see. After dinner offer a nice massage to him. then guide him into the bedroom for your night of passion to begin. This night may work best and be uninterrupted if you can get a grandparent or aunt to keep the kid(s) overnight. Good luck!!
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- by on Feb. 26, 2007 at 10:23 AM
- Tracie: Those are some great suggestions and I will definitely keep them in mind. I'm happy to say I simply asked for it yesterday and surprisingly, he was ready and willing. He actually told me that he was going to ask me after I put our daughter down for the night. After she had a bottle close to dinner time, she was out like a light so I asked him if he was in the mood and turns out he was. Thankfully our daughter didn't take one of her infamous cat naps!! LOL...
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- by on Feb. 26, 2007 at 11:13 AM
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Quoting mla578:
Tracie: Those are some great suggestions and I will definitely keep them in mind. I'm happy to say I simply asked for it yesterday and surprisingly, he was ready and willing. He actually told me that he was going to ask me after I put our daughter down for the night. After she had a bottle close to dinner time, she was out like a light so I asked him if he was in the mood and turns out he was. Thankfully our daughter didn't take one of her infamous cat naps!! LOL...
It's also a good idea to take some sexy/maybe nude photos of yourself and mail them to him at work with a little love letter or something very simple like an I love you or Can't wait until tonight, and give him something to look forward to comming home to. Just make sure he knows they are from you otherwise it could start some trouble if ya know what I mean ... good luck.
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- by on Apr. 19, 2007 at 6:49 PM
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I can totally relate to that one, I swear I'm the one with the testoterone half the time, lol. My hubby works from 7am-bet 8-9pm 5 days a week, and 9-6 on Saturday...I can't blame him for sex being the last thing on his mind. Here's what I've found works with my hubby. After we put our son to bed, I'll give him a back massage. Then, make him sit back and enjoy. I'll give him oral sex, and he's not allowed to touch me at all!! YOU may not get any that night, but the next night, after he's experienced your dedication to him, he'll recipricate =)
Another thing I did, was buy Tickle His Pickle for the two of you. When you get it, grab your favorite lube, and sit him down. Go through the book and read it, to yourself. (My hubby was watching tv during about half of this) Let him do that!! Go through the book, and everything it says in there, ie different ways for a hand job/blow job...Do them. Page by page, do each technique for about 5 mins. The whole thing will take you a little over an hour. But IF you get through it, he'll be exploding. And ask him if he likes the techniques you're using. There may be some he doesn't like. And with him telling you what he likes or doesn't, you learn more about him too. Again, as with the first one, you may not get any the night you do this. I've found, at least with my hubby, that I can ask for it and may not get it. But, if I make him feel like the center of my world.. it makes all the difference. And if you do these things, you'd better hang on to your hat, because when it's your turn to be the center of His world, it'll be the best you've ever had!!! At least it was with me =)
Jamie
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