Vibrators yes or no??

[ppwtracie]

I'm reposting this because for some reason it isn't showing up all thetime. Anyway this is a question for all you ladies . Have you everused a vibrator with or without your mate,and how did you feel about using one the first time and how do you feel about them now?Also would love to hear your expirences with them. All replies will stay in this group and stay private.Thanks Tracie

[ellie]

I have had 2 in my life. One non-vibrating. I have used them both with my husband. And I hated them. I got so irratated with it. I would rather have the real thing. So I did. lol!! But If you are going to used it alone, (if there gone and you know why....) then I would used it. I would just recomend that you get a soft one. Not a hard plasic one. The hard plastic ones hurt like hell! (my opinion) But I have this soft rubbery one that has pearls in it. I like it very much (if the husband will be away for a while. :) But personally, If you have a real live one readily availible then to me there is NO substitute! LOL!!!!
~Ellie

[ppwtracie]

I would definatly perfer the real thing also...They have come a long way a lot of them are soft,and lifelike as opposed to those hard strait ones that do not bend with the shape of your body. I personally like to use a smaller one for clitoral stimulation during sex it helps so that he's not the only one who orgasms all the time. Thanks for your imput!
Tracie

[dreamangel]

 Id say Yes I think they help with the forplay

[SunFlwrz11]

Okay, anyone who knows me knows I like love toys!!!  I do agree that the real thing is the best thing, but even then I want my toys and my nice massaging showerhead *grins*.  I like to include them with my partner...I dated a guy once who considered the toys cheating - well he was put out like yesterdays trash let me tell you!!! I have this rabbit-type one that swivels and vibrates and has cool little dials to adjust the speeds of each...definitely my fave!!!  I know they aren't for everyone - but I personally like them (they don't talk back, or steal the covers, or leave the toilet seat up!!!)

Keli

[southernmomma]

Oh girl. With hubby being in the army and being in Iraq twice in the past 4 years don't you know B.O.B is my best friend. (battery operated buddy). When he is home we play with it together. When he is gone we have cyber sex when the kids are not home or asleep. Hopefully not TMI. And B.O.B comes out then as well. But he can't replace the real thing.

[ppwtracie]

Quoting southernmomma:

Oh girl. With hubby being in the army and being in Iraq twice in the past 4 years don't you know B.O.B is my best friend. (battery operated buddy). When he is home we play with it together. When he is gone we have cyber sex when the kids are not home or asleep. Hopefully not TMI. And B.O.B comes out then as well. But he can't replace the real thing.

God Bless your husband, and thank him for usWithout men like him who knows what other horrible things we'd be facing here. I'm very happy for you that you have been extremly lucky to have him come back to the US both times. I honestly don't know how military wives can handle it when their husbands get shipped to a country like Iraq, you are a very strong woman! I hope all is well and wish you and your family the best of luck!! And if you ever need a new BOB check out the links on this web group.

[southernmomma]

Quoting ppwtracie:

Quoting southernmomma:

Oh girl. With hubby being in the army and being in Iraq twice in the past 4 years don't you know B.O.B is my best friend. (battery operated buddy). When he is home we play with it together. When he is gone we have cyber sex when the kids are not home or asleep. Hopefully not TMI. And B.O.B comes out then as well. But he can't replace the real thing.

God Bless your husband, and thank him for usWithout men like him who knows what other horrible things we'd be facing here. I'm very happy for you that you have been extremly lucky to have him come back to the US both times. I honestly don't know how military wives can handle it when their husbands get shipped to a country like Iraq, you are a very strong woman! I hope all is well and wish you and your family the best of luck!! And if you ever need a new BOB check out the links on this web group.

 I will definatly check it out once the kids are in bed ha ha. We are always looking for new toys to help keep that flame lite a little brighter and hotter. 10 years togther and still going strong.

[irishmama78]

Ooh.. ooh.. ooh.... this is my type of conversation!

Ok, so I sell this stuff!! So, I'd be #1 to say WITH!!!

My husband has no problem with them and is usually the one to pull them out.... now, I say "them" loosely.. since I sell them, I usually have to use them to tell of the way it works and if they are worth it. 9 times out of 10, they are. Remember that they come in lots of lengths, girths, types of material and LOTS of ways they operate. The one with the pearls is really good. I usually use a "bullet" which is just a small vibrating marker shaped little guy. We have a new one that I am DYING to use.... they can come in waterproof, (even submersible for the bath) cordless, corded, pocket size for your purse, and even one shaped like a tube of lipstick for discreet women.
The one for the tub even fits on your index finger so it feels more like you using it instead of a device.

If anyone wants to order one discreetly, I'd be more than happy to send a booklet!

If you are into dildos or actual penis shaped vibrators, there are TONS! Every speed, every shape, even colored ones! We have a glass one for added craziness. You can sit it in a glass of cold or warm water and is actually the strongest one material-wise that we sell. They are very popular. 

There are just so many to choose from, I'd be on here all day!

I def say WITH WITH WITH!!! It doesn't have to substitute for him (which a fake one will NEVER be like the real thing)... but you can add excitement and/or only worry about yourself for one night!