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Posted by on Feb. 1, 2012 at 9:59 AM
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I am collecting stories and all the information I can. I am working on a novel, one that has been in the works for a while now. I use real life events in my work, this time taking the premature birth of my best friends twins as my muse. I don't want to strictly use her story though.

The character is Sarah Beth who is just 15 when she discovers she is pregnant with twins. After having to deliver via emergency c section due to preeclampsia (can use a little help here too if you experienced it). The boy/girl twins are born at 29 wks (though I can change this is earlier or later).

What I need from you (if you are willing) is how you felt during the NICU time. My 4 yr old was in the NICU but for less than a day after my emergency cesarean, but I never stepped foot in the NICU.


I need emotions, the raw ones. The true deep down feelings.

What happens in a NICU?

I will consult other sites for information on machines and monitors, but if you have information about all the help your baby received I would be happy to read about it.

Tell me everything you would want to read about. I know I hate reading a fictional book and a child who has Autism is displayed as a cold unloving child. I don't want to write like that. I want believable and true, not something I just think happens.

If you think I am a crazy woman then ignore this, but if you want to help I really appreciate it.


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ZZsMom
by Member on Feb. 1, 2012 at 9:19 PM

This is probably a good post for you to look at...

http://www.cafemom.com/group/260/forums/read/15235376/Harder_and_harder

LadyOsgood
by on Feb. 1, 2012 at 10:20 PM

Thank you.

Quoting ZZsMom:

This is probably a good post for you to look at...

http://www.cafemom.com/group/260/forums/read/15235376/Harder_and_harder



KJ_on
by Member on Feb. 2, 2012 at 11:44 PM
Go to preeclampsia.org the formums. There. Ore e is a horrible disease. It has cost one of my friends her daughter born at 38 weeks and another friend raises her granddaughter because it killed her daughter. I'm mobile so I don't want to go Into how both affected me.
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AmyParent
by Member on Feb. 17, 2012 at 1:54 AM
I will send you a pm :)
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TXSouthernGrace
by Member on Feb. 18, 2012 at 12:07 PM
Cool- here is a story in blog form about my 1lb 13oz preemie girl. Hope it helps - a lot of raw emotional entries are in August and September. I wrote a lot of it while enduring it, www.growingsydneygrace.blogspot.com. - and good luck!
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