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The Dangers of Negative Thinking

Posted by on May. 7, 2010 at 4:57 PM
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As you have shown an interest in working from home, it would be safe to assume that you want to change your life. You want more money - more control over your life - more respect. But just as we each have a dream, we also have a reality.Unfortunately for most people, the reality bears no similarity whatsoever to the dream. In many cases, the dream exists as an escape from the reality.

Think now of YOUR reality - the life you lead every day. What do you do? How do you feel as you awake? Do you have any enthusiasm for your way of life? Do you enjoy your work? Then ask yourself this important question: Do you resent having to live this way?

If you answered 'yes' to that question, then you are in danger of succumbing to the most destructive human emotion - Hate. If you hate the life you live, the people you deal with, the actions you are forced to take, then you will find yourself rapidly rushing toward disaster.  
 
You must learn NOW, to resist the urge to hate. It achieves nothing constructive and it will destroy both you and your dreams of success.

Take a good look at your way of life. Do you always have to make do with what you have got? Do you always have to put off paying bills until next week? Have you never enough money to enjoy yourself? You may find that you regularly have to write a check on Monday and hope that you will be able to cover it by Thursday. Or you may just be sick of the daily grind of early mornings, or the regular nightshift. If most of these apply to you, then you probably hate living this way.  
So now make a POSITIVE effort to achieve success. Only through positive endeavor and thought will you achieve your goal.  Although your current way of life may be hard, think not how to get rid of it, but how to REPLACE it with a better way of life. Think SUCCESS! 

You may even resent the things that you would normally enjoy, were your circumstances different. Occasions like Christmas, birthdays, and Easter can be trying times when you have no money to spend. Children don't understand the restrictions of a tight budget, and it can cause great distress to a parent who is unable to give his child the gift, or day out, that they would like. Now imagine the difference in these circumstances when you have achieved success and are able to enjoy Christmas, and give your kids what they want. These things that make you miserable and depressed will be all behind you when you put the secrets of success to work. Imagine life without all these trying times.  Isn't it fantastic?!

See you at the top :)

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Posted by on May. 7, 2010 at 4:57 PM
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somuchlaundry
by Member on Sep. 26, 2010 at 7:44 PM

Well said, Laura!!  Keep up the encouragement....we need it!!

alsortiz
by New Member on Nov. 25, 2011 at 3:50 PM

Hi,

I like your line.

Think SUCCESS!


Thank you


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