lost baby at 20 week

[emmab15433]

hi everyone im new to this but thought would come on and see if there is anyone that has lost there baby around 20 weeks and would like to chat. i lost my baby girl on the 20/09/2009 so only a few weeks ago adn finding it very hard. i get up and get ready but i want to go out i hate sitting in the house. i clean everything my house has never been so clean. i just want everything to go back how it was but i know it will know so if anyone would like to chat take care everyone emma x

[myrtlebeach]

Very sorry to hear of your loss I myself lost a baby at 20 weeks and my life will never be the same.

[lizmh0385]

I delivered my son when I was 22 weeks this past January. My dr thinks he had passed around 18 weeks. Our life will never be the same. The only thing I can say is that time really does help. I never thought I would be able to get through our loss but I have. I know I will never be totally over our loss and totaly moved on, but it has gotten easier to function day to day. I still have my bad days and I aways will, but time has helped them not to come so frequent.

I'm so sorry for you loss!

[Caitlinsmom526]

Oh honey,  am so very very sorry :( I lost my baby boy Brendan at 20 weeks in May. It is so hard, and I won't lie, I'm still not doing well. Don't rush yourself, if you need the safety of your house, that's where you need to be. I clean alot too, anything to keep my mind busy. If you need to chat I'm here.

Hugs,

Bridget

PS. Is that your daughters name on your tattoo? It's beautiful. I also got  at attoo in memory of my son.

[emmab15433]

yes its a tattoo with her name on it. i got it on my wrist so i could see it. where about did you get urs

[Caitlinsmom526]

mine is on my shoulder, I am trying to upload it to show you, but am having trouble. i also have a tattoo of a fairy for my eight year old daughter. It has sparkles alot like yours.

[emmab15433]

oh right nice. i hate when things dont upload

[hopeledbetter]

I lost my son at 21 weeks.. This sunday is his due date and I am having the worst time moving forward..I think about him everyday and miss him so much.. I found that making a memorial page for him helped alot.. I also had a tattoo is his honor. I pray god mends your broken heart.. God Bless

 

they are the exact size of my sons feet.. Its on my left shoulder

[carterj1220]

so sorry to hear about your loss as well!

I also lost my son at 20 weeks on October 28th of this year. Its still so fresh in my mind. I also have a lot of bad days..but a lot of good ones to. I have a 1 year old son so that helps me keep my mind busy.

If you need to talk, im here for you also! Since we have all been trhough the same exact thing, its easier to talk to people!! Take care!