On the weekends he started getting up with the kids to let me sleep in. This morning he decided (did I mention we've been fighting all weekend about his mother) that when Ella woke up, instead of picking her up out of her crib, he would go to the bathroom, answer the phone, listen to his messages, get a drink of water, then come in to tell me he got called into work. This took him a good 15 minutes. All the while Ella's screaming bloody murder in her crib and I'm laying there wondering, is he going to get her? Nope.
Sorry, I didn't know there was an expiration date or any stipulations on nice gestures between spouses. I'm seriously going to send him home to his mother's if he's still ike this tomorrow. 
The fact is, to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can. Robert Cushing.
I am sorry men can be so annoying when they get in one of the moods. Mine will stomp around a mutter nonstop after we have a disagreement. He will still do everything but complain "silently" about it the entire time. This makes me just what to hit him up the side of the head or just do it myself.
LMAO baby girl....my DH is an even bigger DILLHOLE!
my DH RARELY gets up with DS on the weekends. He likes to argue he does and I KNOW if I get to sleep or not! It's once in a blue moon that I actually get to sleep in and that's when I'm with my mom. I'm at this very moment VERY sick and guess who's legs I have to sit on because he's passed out sleeping on the couch?....you betcha....the DILLHOLE!!!! I've worked 8 days straight and today is my ONLY day off and then I go in for another 4 days with one day off!!!! Yesterday, I went into work at 2p and wanted to sleep in...NOPE...the dillhole is downstairs, comes up stairs and wakes me up and says "the baby is up..." I said..."okay so are you, deal with it!" he said "no, I want to go out for a drive but I'll be back in time for you to go to work.." I was so mad. He got home literally 15 minutes before I had to leave. I was hoping for a least a shower without a little toddler peaking in on me just ONCE!!!
OH get this.............
daycare is only $95/week including the weekends IF you don't work monday-friday (i.e. if you work Monday, Tuesday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday...you know 5 days) if you utilize the daycare M-F AND the weekends it's an extra $25/day which is TOTALLY understandable. I'm going to have to do this during NTC when my husband is gone but otherwise I never saw a reason to ask for child care on the weekends...WELL I told DH i had to work yesterday on Thursday (when I found out) and he's like "I can't watch him. I had plans to work on my car and I have to get tires for Chewy (his friend)" and he started making every excuse in the book...he said that since daycare was closed for St. Patty's Day (it's a HUGE deal here kids get off of schoool for it!!)...that they OWED US a day....I told him...sorry but that's not the way it works. Then he used the excuse "he needs to get out of the house. I told him...He's been at daycare ALL WEEK he's BEEN out of the house and he may be the ONLY kid at daycare!! Then he made the excuse well we're paying for it so he might as well go....so I got pissed beyond return and said "FUCK IT, FUCK YOU...HE'LL GO TO DAYCARE!!!" So I told the daycare he needed to be there on Saturday afternoon and they said of course that it's be an extra $25, DUH. I said yeah I know but his dad wouldn't watch him....I told DH this and he's like
"oh fuck that if they're going to charge us I'll watch him"....I'm thinking to myself are you fucking kidding me?!?!? You'll watch him when money is involved but not for the sake of spending time with your child!?!?
I have a BIG DILLHOLE for a husband.
Omg i got mad hyst reading your post! My SO is kind of the same way, but hes gotten a little bit better. ugh men
Quoting JBDslittlemam08:LMAO baby girl....my DH is an even bigger DILLHOLE!
my DH RARELY gets up with DS on the weekends. He likes to argue he does and I KNOW if I get to sleep or not! It's once in a blue moon that I actually get to sleep in and that's when I'm with my mom. I'm at this very moment VERY sick and guess who's legs I have to sit on because he's passed out sleeping on the couch?....you betcha....the DILLHOLE!!!! I've worked 8 days straight and today is my ONLY day off and then I go in for another 4 days with one day off!!!! Yesterday, I went into work at 2p and wanted to sleep in...NOPE...the dillhole is downstairs, comes up stairs and wakes me up and says "the baby is up..." I said..."okay so are you, deal with it!" he said "no, I want to go out for a drive but I'll be back in time for you to go to work.." I was so mad. He got home literally 15 minutes before I had to leave. I was hoping for a least a shower without a little toddler peaking in on me just ONCE!!!
OH get this.............
daycare is only $95/week including the weekends IF you don't work monday-friday (i.e. if you work Monday, Tuesday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday...you know 5 days) if you utilize the daycare M-F AND the weekends it's an extra $25/day which is TOTALLY understandable. I'm going to have to do this during NTC when my husband is gone but otherwise I never saw a reason to ask for child care on the weekends...WELL I told DH i had to work yesterday on Thursday (when I found out) and he's like "I can't watch him. I had plans to work on my car and I have to get tires for Chewy (his friend)" and he started making every excuse in the book...he said that since daycare was closed for St. Patty's Day (it's a HUGE deal here kids get off of schoool for it!!)...that they OWED US a day....I told him...sorry but that's not the way it works. Then he used the excuse "he needs to get out of the house. I told him...He's been at daycare ALL WEEK he's BEEN out of the house and he may be the ONLY kid at daycare!! Then he made the excuse well we're paying for it so he might as well go....so I got pissed beyond return and said "FUCK IT, FUCK YOU...HE'LL GO TO DAYCARE!!!" So I told the daycare he needed to be there on Saturday afternoon and they said of course that it's be an extra $25, DUH. I said yeah I know but his dad wouldn't watch him....I told DH this and he's like
"oh fuck that if they're going to charge us I'll watch him"....I'm thinking to myself are you fucking kidding me?!?!? You'll watch him when money is involved but not for the sake of spending time with your child!?!?
I have a BIG DILLHOLE for a husband.
Trust me I'm MAD just thinking about it. I'm SO happy your DH has gotten a little better. A little improvement is better than nothing. Mine is just getting soooo much worse.
Quoting Ljensen09:
Omg i got mad hyst reading your post! My SO is kind of the same way, but hes gotten a little bit better. ugh men
Quoting JBDslittlemam08:
LMAO baby girl....my DH is an even bigger DILLHOLE!
my DH RARELY gets up with DS on the weekends. He likes to argue he does and I KNOW if I get to sleep or not! It's once in a blue moon that I actually get to sleep in and that's when I'm with my mom. I'm at this very moment VERY sick and guess who's legs I have to sit on because he's passed out sleeping on the couch?....you betcha....the DILLHOLE!!!! I've worked 8 days straight and today is my ONLY day off and then I go in for another 4 days with one day off!!!! Yesterday, I went into work at 2p and wanted to sleep in...NOPE...the dillhole is downstairs, comes up stairs and wakes me up and says "the baby is up..." I said..."okay so are you, deal with it!" he said "no, I want to go out for a drive but I'll be back in time for you to go to work.." I was so mad. He got home literally 15 minutes before I had to leave. I was hoping for a least a shower without a little toddler peaking in on me just ONCE!!!
OH get this.............
daycare is only $95/week including the weekends IF you don't work monday-friday (i.e. if you work Monday, Tuesday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday...you know 5 days) if you utilize the daycare M-F AND the weekends it's an extra $25/day which is TOTALLY understandable. I'm going to have to do this during NTC when my husband is gone but otherwise I never saw a reason to ask for child care on the weekends...WELL I told DH i had to work yesterday on Thursday (when I found out) and he's like "I can't watch him. I had plans to work on my car and I have to get tires for Chewy (his friend)" and he started making every excuse in the book...he said that since daycare was closed for St. Patty's Day (it's a HUGE deal here kids get off of schoool for it!!)...that they OWED US a day....I told him...sorry but that's not the way it works. Then he used the excuse "he needs to get out of the house. I told him...He's been at daycare ALL WEEK he's BEEN out of the house and he may be the ONLY kid at daycare!! Then he made the excuse well we're paying for it so he might as well go....so I got pissed beyond return and said "FUCK IT, FUCK YOU...HE'LL GO TO DAYCARE!!!" So I told the daycare he needed to be there on Saturday afternoon and they said of course that it's be an extra $25, DUH. I said yeah I know but his dad wouldn't watch him....I told DH this and he's like
"oh fuck that if they're going to charge us I'll watch him"....I'm thinking to myself are you fucking kidding me?!?!? You'll watch him when money is involved but not for the sake of spending time with your child!?!?
I have a BIG DILLHOLE for a husband.
Ah I'm sorry! I get one weekend day where i get to sleep in and DH gets the other. We try to make it fair. The worst thing for me is though, that when i sleep in i feel like crud for having slept to long!
Sorry he's being a dillhole, I'm used to waking up with the boys so when their father is already awake and can watch Dominic it's awesome...but not so much when he is plaing and chasing him through the house and he runs in the room screaming Mommy! waking up his brother (like yesterday lol)
Want mine? His family comes first though btw. So you have to oneup to your mil. YAH. That's right. Then he pulls petty crap like this when I put my foot down. This has been going on so long I'm actualyl debating if I even want to stick it out to be married--I'm much happier thinking of singleness..Seriously. Sometimes it's better that way.
Quoting NicsMomma07:
At least you ladies have hubbies!
The fact is, to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can. Robert Cushing.
Yah, I think he'd lose something at that. I got mad too reading that. He deserves the HOSER AWARD OF THE WEEKEND. Mine gets 2nd.
Quoting JBDslittlemam08:
LMAO baby girl....my DH is an even bigger DILLHOLE!
my DH RARELY gets up with DS on the weekends. He likes to argue he does and I KNOW if I get to sleep or not! It's once in a blue moon that I actually get to sleep in and that's when I'm with my mom. I'm at this very moment VERY sick and guess who's legs I have to sit on because he's passed out sleeping on the couch?....you betcha....the DILLHOLE!!!! I've worked 8 days straight and today is my ONLY day off and then I go in for another 4 days with one day off!!!! Yesterday, I went into work at 2p and wanted to sleep in...NOPE...the dillhole is downstairs, comes up stairs and wakes me up and says "the baby is up..." I said..."okay so are you, deal with it!" he said "no, I want to go out for a drive but I'll be back in time for you to go to work.." I was so mad. He got home literally 15 minutes before I had to leave. I was hoping for a least a shower without a little toddler peaking in on me just ONCE!!!
OH get this.............
daycare is only $95/week including the weekends IF you don't work monday-friday (i.e. if you work Monday, Tuesday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday...you know 5 days) if you utilize the daycare M-F AND the weekends it's an extra $25/day which is TOTALLY understandable. I'm going to have to do this during NTC when my husband is gone but otherwise I never saw a reason to ask for child care on the weekends...WELL I told DH i had to work yesterday on Thursday (when I found out) and he's like "I can't watch him. I had plans to work on my car and I have to get tires for Chewy (his friend)" and he started making every excuse in the book...he said that since daycare was closed for St. Patty's Day (it's a HUGE deal here kids get off of schoool for it!!)...that they OWED US a day....I told him...sorry but that's not the way it works. Then he used the excuse "he needs to get out of the house. I told him...He's been at daycare ALL WEEK he's BEEN out of the house and he may be the ONLY kid at daycare!! Then he made the excuse well we're paying for it so he might as well go....so I got pissed beyond return and said "FUCK IT, FUCK YOU...HE'LL GO TO DAYCARE!!!" So I told the daycare he needed to be there on Saturday afternoon and they said of course that it's be an extra $25, DUH. I said yeah I know but his dad wouldn't watch him....I told DH this and he's like
"oh fuck that if they're going to charge us I'll watch him"....I'm thinking to myself are you fucking kidding me?!?!? You'll watch him when money is involved but not for the sake of spending time with your child!?!?
I have a BIG DILLHOLE for a husband.
The fact is, to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can. Robert Cushing.
For reals, Can't I just be pregnant and have that be bad enough? PIOG
- rlemde
on Mar. 21, 2010 at 10:43 AM