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So giggly.. but dont know if its a good thing (piog)

Posted by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:15 PM
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Ok.. So we have a bunch of different maintenance men in our apts.. There is one that I've had a little crush on since we moved in. I'm alwasy all giggly and happy when he comes around especially since he's always calling me sweetie and cutie and junk.

Well today he comes by to fix something that has already been fixed. I guess they never told him. So he talks to me about my kids for a min then leaves... About 5 min later he comes back and says so what day did they fix that? blah blah blah then starts talking about the tattoo on my foot he asks if its my bf's name. I say no its my ex husbands.. then he smiles really big and says so are you single? =-) I am so I say yes I am and he asks for my number =-)) and then called me like right after he left.

He says he's been wanting to ask for my number the whole time but just wasnt sure he should.

Its really cute but then again I'm a lil aprehensive what if he turns out to be crazy? lol hes the maintenance man hes got access to my appt whenever he wants it!





 I am a proud 23 yr/o divorced SAHM to two amazing and gorgeous little boys. Who believes in co -sleeping, non CIO, baby wearing, vaccinating on schedule, spanking (on occasion), non-circumcising, breast and formula feeding, child-led parentingI’m not afraid to speak my mind, but I do not seek out drama.
** it is through allowing my child to be dependent when he needs to that I give him the confidence to be independent when he’s ready**

by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:15 PM
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CarolinaMom2006
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:19 PM

Awwh, im sure he's not crazy! Good Luck! :)

5peasinapod07
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:20 PM

you can google him.

alexsmomaubrys2
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:20 PM

I say go for it. =) You never know when love will strike. <3


"God is an invention of Man. So the nature of God is only a shallow mystery. The deep mystery is the nature of man."


joscelyne
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:20 PM

lol thank you its a lil said to admit but its such an awesome feeling when u get pursued by a guy lol

LuckyTat
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:22 PM

I would say, go for it!  If he's psycho, well he's already got your number and access to your house... lol


Although I'm sure your fine!  Or you would have already had problems... :)

joscelyne
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:23 PM

he is already blowing my phone up wanting to come by and chat for a bit.... eeeek lol i think the thing I like about it the most is I'm always in pajamas and lookin a mess when hes came by and he's still interested





 I am a proud 23 yr/o divorced SAHM to two amazing and gorgeous little boys. Who believes in co -sleeping, non CIO, baby wearing, vaccinating on schedule, spanking (on occasion), non-circumcising, breast and formula feeding, child-led parentingI’m not afraid to speak my mind, but I do not seek out drama.
** it is through allowing my child to be dependent when he needs to that I give him the confidence to be independent when he’s ready**

joscelyne
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:25 PM

yeah i think so too although he is already blowin my phone up!

Quoting LuckyTat:

I would say, go for it!  If he's psycho, well he's already got your number and access to your house... lol

 

Although I'm sure your fine!  Or you would have already had problems... :)






 I am a proud 23 yr/o divorced SAHM to two amazing and gorgeous little boys. Who believes in co -sleeping, non CIO, baby wearing, vaccinating on schedule, spanking (on occasion), non-circumcising, breast and formula feeding, child-led parentingI’m not afraid to speak my mind, but I do not seek out drama.
** it is through allowing my child to be dependent when he needs to that I give him the confidence to be independent when he’s ready**

BugsySG
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:28 PM

I would say get to know him, and just be careful for your kids sakes. Nothing wrong with having a love life as long as its as safe as possible! You go girl!good luck

joscelyne
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:33 PM

thank you bugsy I feel you on that one.. If he werent the maint. man and just some other guy there would be no way he'd already be around my kids but if he's here to fix sumthin I cant help it right lol

Quoting BugsySG:

I would say get to know him, and just be careful for your kids sakes. Nothing wrong with having a love life as long as its as safe as possible! You go girl!good luck






 I am a proud 23 yr/o divorced SAHM to two amazing and gorgeous little boys. Who believes in co -sleeping, non CIO, baby wearing, vaccinating on schedule, spanking (on occasion), non-circumcising, breast and formula feeding, child-led parentingI’m not afraid to speak my mind, but I do not seek out drama.
** it is through allowing my child to be dependent when he needs to that I give him the confidence to be independent when he’s ready**

BugsySG
by on May. 24, 2010 at 6:52 PM

I think it's great that you've found someone that's interested, and if he's already been around your kids when he's fixing things than you know that he's okay with you being a mom. Plus kids especially really young ones tend to have a really good judge of character. Watch your kids reactions to him the next time he's there, if they seem uncomfortable around him than maybe he's not the best choice.

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