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Married men looking at porn

Posted by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:15 AM
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What's your stance?

by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:15 AM
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sdwyer
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:16 AM

It doesn't bother me, but my husband hardly ever looks at porn and when he does we're watching it together. If he was looking at it nonstop and if it caused problems with our sex life then I would definitely have a problem with it.

meelena123
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:20 AM

i cant stop him he would just find away to watch porn when i am not around anyways as long as it doesnt affect our relationship i am just ok with it .

try4baby20
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:20 AM
It doesn't cause a problem I look too but he feels weird watching it together which I would rather
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tiredmom1980
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:20 AM

I am not okay with it at all. My husband has had a problem with it and it has hurt our marriage. He went to a men's group about it, and we also take preventative action at  home. I disconnect the internet and take the router with me or lock it up when I go out. I also disconnect the internet and lock it up before we go to bed. It has helped save our marriage. I want to warn women out there, that for men viewing porn almost always progresses into a worse compulsion. My husband  would be up all night viewing it while I was sleeping. I didn't know until I caught him one day locked up in a room. It is a catalyst to an affair and divorce. Be advised and be warned.

KBix
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:20 AM
This :)

Quoting sdwyer:

It doesn't bother me, but my husband hardly ever looks at porn and when he does we're watching it together. If he was looking at it nonstop and if it caused problems with our sex life then I would definitely have a problem with it.

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sdwyer
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:23 AM

 I'm sorry you had to go through that, but I really don't think all men that look at porn are like that. My best friend's husband will watch porn almost every day and they still have a great relationship and sex life. Some men can handle it without it becoming an obsession. I really don't think that porn leads to affairs and divorces in all cases.

Quoting tiredmom1980:

I am not okay with it at all. My husband has had a problem with it and it has hurt our marriage. He went to a men's group about it, and we also take preventative action at  home. I disconnect the internet and take the router with me or lock it up when I go out. I also disconnect the internet and lock it up before we go to bed. It has helped save our marriage. I want to warn women out there, that for men viewing porn almost always progresses into a worse compulsion. My husband  would be up all night viewing it while I was sleeping. I didn't know until I caught him one day locked up in a room. It is a catalyst to an affair and divorce. Be advised and be warned.

 

shawnalovesdon0
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:23 AM

 It bothers me sometimes... But we always watch it together. Never alone and doing something to ourselfs thats why we have eachother!

lexismum03
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:24 AM

 As long as it isn't constant and isn't affecting our sex life it doesn't bother me. Like during that time of the month I don't want to have sex I know he has needs. the rest of the time dangit if you need/want sex come to me...lol I'm game!

luv_my_xiya
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:25 AM

 doesnt bother me at all...he only looks at it when he is bored or if we go a long time without sex

DeputyWifeJen
by on Jun. 13, 2010 at 10:26 AM

Doesn't bother me, I look at porn too. But then agan, I have an open marriage.

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