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sooo effin over this

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 1:50 AM
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 My husband watches porn. It has always bothered me. I would still just let him watch it anyway. Well I'm effin tired of it. Here's why.. He asked me if I wnated him to watch the baby while I went to Zumba. So I went. So here I am on the computer hours later while my hubby is sleeping..and what's in the history?? PORN. When I came home form Zumba he had baby einstein playing for the baby. Probaly so he could watch his fucking porn. I'm seriously OVER IT. It angers me to the fuckin core. He cheated on me 3 years ago and thats all it makes me think about. It really pisses me the fuck off when my son is in his bounccy seat watching baby einstein while he watches his fucking porn. FUCK this. I'm a very attractive woman and there's no reason for him to watch that shit. It used to make me feel insecure and hoenstly still does sometimes. I know I'm not ugly. Or outa shape. AND I'm 16 years younger then my hubbby! He needs to open his fucking eyes and relize what he has because it's really becoming out of hand.

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Charli627
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 1:55 AM
You said that you just let him watch it anyway.....so have you told him how you really feel? Maybe he thinks you're ok with it.
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angel112
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 1:56 AM
Aaawww hunny Im so sorry. I hqve gone through this also. If you ever wanna talk just let me know.
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luvinmy3babes
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 1:56 AM
Im sorry! ((Hugs))
my DH has a porn addiction and has been in counciling for a few years now. I know how hard it is. If u ever need to talk u can pm me any time!
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babyboy117
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 1:58 AM

 

Quoting Charli627:

You said that you just let him watch it anyway.....so have you told him how you really feel? Maybe he thinks you're ok with it.

 he knows it bother me. I screamed and yelled and cried about it just last nite and then he turns around and does it today. I have always complained about it. It's not that I "let" him watch it.. but I can't stop him..

aprilsalcro
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:02 AM

 wow im sorry may be you should sit hin down and talk to him again and get rid of the internet and computer. Is it that bad you would leave him ?

ambcutie24
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:04 AM

bump

Kailak
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:07 AM
Maybe he's addicted
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KKR15
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:13 AM

I know exactly how you feel! Maybe just lay down the law for him.. That is what I had to do!

NANA0819
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:19 AM
ok I wasn't gonna reply but I have to ask...I understand that u guys have a history of infidelity in ur relationship but other than that y does ur son watchin BE bother u so much? I'm not bashing, just curious. for example, my dh doesn't watch porn but he will sit on the couch watching tv while my son is on the floor 2 ft in front of him crying his head off. I feel like if porn made my husband take care of his "daddy" responsibilities a little better, I'd be buying it for him lol. but honestly, it seems to me that the problem might stem from the infidelity issues. have u truly dealt with that? have u dealt with it together? the insecurity probably comes from the fact that since he cheated on u before, u might be thinking he wants to do it again with the girls in the movies. imo, if this is at all true, u need to handle that first before u tackle the porn issue.

also, it might help u to understand y he watches it. dh did for a little bit & wen I asked him if the girls turned him on he said it wasn't the girl neccessarily (sp?) but that he pictured me doing to him wat they were doing in the movies...idk, just trying to give a different perspective. sorry ur dealing with this :(
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babyboy117
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 2:26 AM

 

Quoting NANA0819:

ok I wasn't gonna reply but I have to ask...I understand that u guys have a history of infidelity in ur relationship but other than that y does ur son watchin BE bother u so much? I'm not bashing, just curious. for example, my dh doesn't watch porn but he will sit on the couch watching tv while my son is on the floor 2 ft in front of him crying his head off. I feel like if porn made my husband take care of his "daddy" responsibilities a little better, I'd be buying it for him lol. but honestly, it seems to me that the problem might stem from the infidelity issues. have u truly dealt with that? have u dealt with it together? the insecurity probably comes from the fact that since he cheated on u before, u might be thinking he wants to do it again with the girls in the movies. imo, if this is at all true, u need to handle that first before u tackle the porn issue.

also, it might help u to understand y he watches it. dh did for a little bit & wen I asked him if the girls turned him on he said it wasn't the girl neccessarily (sp?) but that he pictured me doing to him wat they were doing in the movies...idk, just trying to give a different perspective. sorry ur dealing with this :(

 I bought baby einstein for my son..I have no problem wiht my son watching baby einstein.. but the fact that my husband put baby einstein on for him JUST SO HE CAN WATCH PORN in the same room as my son pisses me off. its disgusting.

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