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I would rather him watch than cheat....?

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:41 AM
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 First off, I don't care what other's do in their relationship. If your ok with Porn then thats awasome! This is just something I see alot and I honestly don't get it.

To you ladies who did say, "I would rather him get off to Porn than cheat". Do you really think he would go out and cheat on you if he didn't look at porn? How do you think he would feel if he knew you felt this way?

Again, I am not judging or bashing anyone, I just don't get it.

by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:41 AM
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AugustMidge
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:44 AM

Nither is acceptable in my book.

TiDyedSunriseLZ
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:44 AM
I dunno.. I'm glad to say my husband doesn't do either one of those. So I don't fully understand the theory either.
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momma-flynn
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:46 AM

lol I don't think if my dh was cut off from porn that he would just run out & cheat. He's not a sex-crazed animal that can't control himself. I don't have a problem with him watching it. He knows how I feel about him watching it. I used to be uncomfortable with it. But guess what? We communicate in our marriage. We talk openly & honestly. He has enough respect for me & my feelings, that if it was an issue in our marriage he would stop watching porn. If I'm not in the mood to have it on while we are having sex, it doesn't get put on the tv.

xxxAthena
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:48 AM

hmmm i think...*i hope*...that what they mean is its not as bad as cheating...i dunno i don't care if he watches porn, i watch it with him BUT i am never worried about him cheating either. We use it as an enhancement tool just like we would a vibrator or lube. The women in the porn don't intimidate me anymore than the men in the porn intimidate my husband.

ajudson9
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:52 AM

I used to hate porn. I hated when my husband watched it. I watched it with him and it auctually spiced things up. We don't watch it all the time just once in a while. I don't have a problem with it unless he starts getting obsessed with it. Other than that i think it's a good thing for couples to watch it every once in a while.

RheaF
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:55 AM

 And again, I am not trying to debate whether people should watch or not. That is a personal decision. I am just honestly curious.

xxxAthena, I get what your saying and maybe thats what they mean?

Samantha_1629
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:57 AM

If my DH had to watch porn or have sex with another woman to be satisfied then he wouldn't need me. I am enough.

mom2twins9909
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:58 AM
If a guy is going to cheat he is going to. Porn isn't going to stop him.
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xxxAthena
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 8:58 AM

yeah the thing that makes it hard for me to believe that they literally mean he WILL prob cheat on me if he doesn't watch porn is that..well the woman would be admitting her husband has zero faithfulness and a tape is all that is keeping him around..and she is staying there with him.  I agree it sounds off though when they put that sentence in  there...to me personally it has never done anything for the argument, if anything it has made the ones of us that are for porn look weak in a way KWIM. like we are all thinking omg im not enough for him he must see other chicks naked

Quoting RheaF:

 And again, I am not trying to debate whether people should watch or not. That is a personal decision. I am just honestly curious.

xxxAthena, I get what your saying and maybe thats what they mean?


momma-flynn
by on Feb. 9, 2011 at 9:00 AM

yep. if he's going to cheat he will.  

Quoting mom2twins9909:

If a guy is going to cheat he is going to. Porn isn't going to stop him.

 


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