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Sex Advice anyone??? (Maybe TMI)

Posted by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 11:55 AM
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Ok So DH and I want to try annal... again! The last time we tried it hurt like hell! I was wondering what is the BEST LUBE for this?

I also have been wanting to improve my skills in the oral sex area... I'm thinking about some flavored lubes.. Any suggestions?

We have been an "old fashion" couple when it came to sex, but we have been talking and we are ready to let the cat out of the bag and try EVERYTHING!! I am so excited!

Ohh and another question.. Any suggestions on porn?? I have NEVER watched one and watching one together is another thing DH and I want to try.. He keeps asking me what kind do I like, but I have no freaking clue! I don't even know what he means by what kind!! I thought they were all sex shows!! LOL Never realized they were categorized!

So please I need some advice like ASAP! :)

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Emily197
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 11:57 AM

there is numming cream

Pink_caffiene
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 11:57 AM
I am in class right now. But if you want PM me and ill explain it all and give tips on oral.
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AprilH06
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:00 PM

 okay, as far as anal goes, start slow, like a finger or something, use lots of lube, it doesnt need to be flavored just needs to make things slippery. The oral part, I would say watch porn that has oral in it that might give you some ideas. And don't be afraid of some pointers from your DH, ask him what feels good. The whole point is for him to enjoy it so let him know his opinion is very important. As far as porn goes, it all depends on what you find appealing, you can go as weird or as normal as you want. Have fun! This makes me want to try some new stuff! LOL

Lavender_oil3
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:03 PM
Lol how cute. try baby oil for anal and maybe flavored condoms for oral. i wanna try KY.
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CheyennesMommy2
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:03 PM
Heres a bump! Cause we need more suggestions for porn lol we are bired with what we have!
As for oral theres numbing stuff, I like strawberry flavored gel..i dont like numbing tho...but have ur guy tell u what he likes! & practice makes perfect! :) I do this like alooot lol im not gonna lie, dh is a happy happy man :)
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Sweets27
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:17 PM

Anal Eze numbing cream works really well. I've heard that some people say not to use it because you can't feel. yes you can feel but it makes it easier at first. You can also use anal lube as well. Just take your time and I would suggest you be on top so you can control it. Once you get more comfortable you can try other positions. For oral ask him what he likes for you to do to him.

Momof4kids9621
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:20 PM
I just did anal last night! First time in years! I got anal lube! Yup that's what it's called! I walked in a sex store asked what I needed and she said that's what worked best! Btw you need to be on top! That way you can be in control of how fast,hard,deep ect...gl! I'm excited to do it again, I've never heard my dh moan like that lmfao!
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kleigh24
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:21 PM

astro glide is my favorite.. i hate ky

PaintedPanda
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:39 PM

For anal the only thing I can suggest is what the other ladies have suggested, lube and start with a finger and go slow! Do NOT rush it.

For oral... I can't give any tips there, I've never been any good at it. Just ask the hubby. :)

As for porn, try visiting the website Xnxx.com (It's free) and go through the list of different kinds. I've found that it all depends on my mood on what I like... there are some things that I normally like and other I only like at certain points in my mood. Also, try talking to your husband about it, try watching the types that he likes and see if it does anything for you... Might help. :)

JaimieLynn8
by on Mar. 28, 2011 at 12:46 PM
No tips for anal.
For oral, just simply using flavored anything won't make your skills any better!
The way I got better was by feedback and having boyfriends tell me what they like. I suggest the same!
But don't use your teeth, play/lick his balls, use a hand at the same time...it's hard to describe what other things you can do in just words lol. But when you start watching porn, take notes! Ask hubby what he likes though, that's important.

As for porn, if you've never watched it before, maybe try softcore porn first.
There are def a bunch of different kinds of porn though! Orgy, swinger, anal, lesbian, fetish, bondage, etc... Good luck
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