I thought somehow My daughters father and I would make it, I really did. But, weeks ago he said he needs us to be long distance friends for awhile, which made me cry for days. For 3 years we have been in this viscious cycle, us getting somewhat close and then him pushing me away. 3 years I never looked at anyone else, I knew i had to be with derik. Maybe its not the case anymore I do not know. So, 3 years of no dating, no flirting, nothing with other men. Well, last weekend I met this guy named Reid. He is really nice we exchnged e-mails, and have had a couple e-mails back and forth since then. I did not mention I had a daughter, I didn't mention it in the e-mails either. Now he wants to get a drink or coffee, do I tell him when I go out with him or before? I should be so confident about this I love Lacey, she is literally my world day in and day out, shes amazing. I just don't know about this dating stuff I feel so much for Derik, but he dosen't want anything from me. Why not just go out and have fun? Anybody have this problem? I feel like guys see young women with a child, i am 22, as a person with so much baggage. I don't want a father for her or financial support, or to fet married i just want to have fun, and sort out my life. I need advice!
on Apr. 21, 2007 at 10:52 AM