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I need dating advice! lol

Posted by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:28 PM
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Gahhh!! I don't know how to date anymore! lol I got out of a bad relationship about 5 months ago, and haven't been dating at all since. But this one guy i've kind of started liking. He works with a friend of mine and i actually used to go to highschool with him. lol We've been chatting at safeway every time i see him for like a month now. I have a game night every week at my place when DD is with her dad and so on a whim i invited the guy i like over to it. (his name is andrew) He came and we had a alot of fun. A lot of flirting go on which was weird (just cuz i haven't flirted with another man in a long time) but fun. :) He's coming again to my game night which is tomorrow. My question is..well i kinda want to go out on a date with this man. lol But he isn't making any moves..i mean we flirt..but i'm thinking should i make a move? like ask HIM out? lol I've never done that before and i feel like a tard since i'm 27 years old and i so don't get the dating world. lol Or maybe i should just wait it out for a bit and see where things go? Help me out! lol


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TempestRayne
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:31 PM
HMmmmm, maybe just ask him out. Be prepared to pay though, lol.
My3LuVs83
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:34 PM
aaah id be too shy to ask him out i would wait.. But thats just me.
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mom2twins9909
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:35 PM

Wait it out

Go for it

What do I know? I've been married for 5 years now and been out of the dating game for awhile! lol

jojomommy
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:38 PM

Ask him if he would like to see a movie or grab some coffee some time what ever you do DONT HAVE SEX.. wait atleast a month if not more.... If you can get your hands on a book called " why men love bitches.. its funny and kind of helps you in the dating world

Gastromama2007
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:38 PM
Yeah def don't have sex
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PhiLLy-StyLe
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:39 PM
I say go for it!!! Nothing wrong with going after what you want an being the one to initiate things.
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PeaceMuch
by Kali on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:41 PM
Go for it! But like others said don't jump into sex too fast.
Fantasystar
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 4:44 PM

Same Here.

Quoting My3LuVs83:

aaah id be too shy to ask him out i would wait.. But thats just me.


pyrateprincess
by on Jun. 4, 2011 at 7:43 PM


Quoting jojomommy:

Ask him if he would like to see a movie or grab some coffee some time what ever you do DONT HAVE SEX.. wait atleast a month if not more.... If you can get your hands on a book called " why men love bitches.. its funny and kind of helps you in the dating world

I'll have to check that book out. thanks! lol Don't worry i won't have sex. lol I'm not looking for sex right now. I'm kind of scared of sex..sex is a kind of scary thing for me right now. I need to be able to trust a man to be able tosleep with him..especially now after what happened. :-/

pyrateprincess
by on Jun. 5, 2011 at 12:48 PM

bump

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