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what can actually be put in a CO?

Posted by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 11:32 AM
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I've been getting little pointers from you ladies, family, and friends about putting this in the CO, putting that in the CO. Are COs really that detailed? I would like to ask for things in our CO for our upcoming court date next month, but I don't want to seem unreasonable or that I'm asking for to much. I just want to feel safe sending dd 1200 miles away. What I thought about asking for imma the CO is

* bf maintain a phone.
* he gives 30 days notice of his choosing of weeks for summer visitation.
* no spanking.
* notice of where dd will be when with him, if he has to work(who will be watching her).
* 30 days notice of any cancellations or schedule changes.
* if he misses any of his scheduled visitations, he can't make them up.
* at any chance he can't either accompany dd back to me, and I have to fly to get her he either loses his next schedule visitation or he pays for both pick up and drop off tickets. Plus he has to come get her.
* same things goes for if he can't pay to return dd.
* we are only to communicate via email, UNLESS dd is calling the OP.

Does any of this sound unreasonable? To you ladies that know my situation, what else would you add?
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LancesMom
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 1:00 PM

It sounds good! Maybe some of the moms in the 

Single Moms

group could help you too!

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