this has to do with the porn post. im sure most of you have been following it. and ive read some stuff thats made me feel like i have an abnormal, horrible relationship with my husband just b/c i watch porn with him. i dont understand how this keeps us from having a normal loving relationship. it's not like we use it 24/7. and it really helps when we want to have sex but feel a little tired...it gives us a little boost. or occasionally, when we get a new one....we watch it for fun. when we were 18 and 19...we used it to learn new things, since we were both somewhat inexperienced. we dont watch crazy abusive porn or anything with distgusting like men abusing or sufficating the women. Most of what we own actually have women who are physically similar to me. not to be nasty...but for example...women with big butts like myself. we dont always have the time we want for each other, so its something we also use individually. so thats something that makes us abnormal???? my relationship is doomed and horrible because of it?? Yes, I know there has been studies and whatnot of bad things happening that have to do with porn...but normally those poeple already have disorted veiws of what a relationship, or a woman should be.
on Apr. 25, 2007 at 5:35 PM