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ok, this is SO embarrassing to post,but I wonder if im the only one like this?

Posted by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:30 PM
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Please no bashing! I feel bad enough about it!

Ok,so were all women,so I'm wondering if im the only one with this issue. I only ask because its starting to bother me. I've watched porn before and seen pictures of naked women. I've noticed that I look different downstairs than other women. My vaginal lips are larger and I'm VERY self conscious about it! If my panties or jeans are too tight it pinches. I'm too embarrassed to talk to my doctor about it,and I feel like I'm deformed down there. :( My SO says he is very attracted to me and loves it...but I find myself gross. I've never spoken a word to anyone but him about it. Sometimes sex is even painful if I start to get dry,it feels like its tugging or something.

Are there women out there with this problem too? Please don't bash or make fun of me.
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Gealach
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:32 PM
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Vajayjays are like flowers, everyone's are totally different.
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Kaleigh92805
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:34 PM
I have bigger lips than normal too but it doesn't really bother me
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skittlebeans88
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:34 PM
Very good answer, and so true.

Quoting Gealach:

Vajayjays are like flowers, everyone's are totally different.
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prissypoptart
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:34 PM
A meaty vagina is very common.. long vagina labia. I think you can get it removed, its cosmetic and costs out the ass.. but hey, if you can afford it.. ;)
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mom_of_one_2010
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:35 PM
Makes us diff in every wat


Quoting skittlebeans88:

Very good answer, and so true.



Quoting Gealach:

Vajayjays are like flowers, everyone's are totally different.

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ProudMomma1022
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:35 PM
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Lets see a pic.... I tell ya if there is a problem. Haha just kidding :) im not trying to poke fun, i notice that my lips are slightly bigger then the naked women in mags or on porn. Every one is different try using some lube while doing the deed and see if that eases the pain. I know when hubby and i do it for more then like 30 min with switching positions a lot i tend to get dry and it hurts, so we have lube handy when that happens. Lips are lips some are big some are small if ur SO likes u that way then your perfect for him :)
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Gealach
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:35 PM
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I saw this art peice that someone did where they did plaster molds of about 20 different lady parts and it was eye opening at how different they all were
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xomrs.chase
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:39 PM
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I have a tumor the size of a coconut in my vaginal wall :)

Feel better! (Lol)

We're all unique! And as long as your man thinks your sexy you have nothing to worry about!!! I don't think its an abnormal feature. Embrace your o'keefe! <3

(Ps: my hubby just thought I was super extra tight LOL)
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3Monsters060909
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:39 PM

yup google the vagina wall it's crazy and very eye opening


Quoting Gealach:

I saw this art peice that someone did where they did plaster molds of about 20 different lady parts and it was eye opening at how different they all were


beautiful_life
by on Nov. 9, 2011 at 3:39 PM
Mine are just slightly larger, but my dr and my dh ar the only ones who see me naked and they dont seem to mind lol
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