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Posted by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:45 PM
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My kids sd (sperm donor as i call him) is 11 years older then me!!! I am only 21 and we have twin 1 year olds. I met him at 19 got pregnant at 19 and delivered at 20 and now i am about to be 22. He is suppose to be the more "mature one " right becuase hes older? but hes not hes a kid and he doesnt even take care of his kids.


Anyone else feel like they are the more mature one between the parents?

by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:45 PM
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aidyns_mommy
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:47 PM
I think we both have our immature moments but both stepped up and changed as soon as we became parents! He is 26 I am 22 I got pregnant at 17 almost 18.
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PeaceMuch
by Kali on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:52 PM
My husband is 2.5 years older.
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twinsforlove
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:57 PM

He hasnt steped up he left us when they were born and I feel like wow really I was still a teenager and he was a adult........I grew up in the matter of seconds as soon as i found out i was pregnant and he just became more of a child?

GirlWSlingshot
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:58 PM

My ex was 4 years older. I was 19 as well and I was the only one who could handle parenting. Long story, but I had to leave when DS was 8 weeks old because having a baby around seemed to aggravate my ex' bipolar disorder (which was diagnosed when I was 6 weeks pregnant) to the point that our marriage actually ended at gunpoint.

lovenoahandjeff
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:59 PM
My husband is 9 years older. I'm more mature, lol
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lucasmommy503
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:04 PM
dh is 5 years older and we both have our moments but he does love being on his kid level when he can be which is not often.
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.Pagan.
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:05 PM

no we are 8 years different. i am the younger one and we met when i was 19 as well. we are matched well maturity wise.

starryeyez23
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:06 PM
Dh is 7 years older then me. We both have immature moments but in different areas. We balance each other well
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TempestRayne
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:09 PM
Yes.
SaraNicole1019
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:11 PM
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My SO is ten years older than me!
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