Look i know a baby dad suppose to help but he wont he thinks just buying a crib and diapers is helping it is not. I am a first time mother and I would love for him to step up and offer to take her to give me some time to myself I been with my baby 24/7 since she has been born and it is hard and I would love to o get my hair done or run around without dragging her along or just sleep one whole night without having to wake up. He wants to file for custody but she is 3 months and he wont recive what he want he dose not give me money for her and he refuses to help me with picking her up from daycare. It either his way or nothing. I am about to scream and I dont know what to do about everything it is breaking my heart to be this way angry and stressed all the time. I need some people to talk to.
Quoting muisjes:
It seems you're betterbof without his support. Is his name on the birth certificate? If yes, you can file for child support, if no, he won't be able to get any custody. What an ass.
he is taking me to court for perturnity test even though I gave him the forms 3 times to be put on the birth certificate... He says he provieds for her but my baby is 4 moths old and he bought a pack a diapers and a crib and 3 outfits that not providing though I spent well over 900 on her already for bottles n everything else.
Quoting muisjes:
It seems you're betterbof without his support. Is his name on the birth certificate? If yes, you can file for child support, if no, he won't be able to get any custody. What an ass.
IF he does not want to help on his own he dosent need any rights to her. I have family but in the end I am the one doing everything myself. I dont know what to do sometimes I just wanna leave n not come back. Sometimes I go outside and scream till my voice hurts. I dont know what to do I dont want to take it out on my Daughter but it is hard with everything.
Quoting cupcake_mom:
Even if he isnt on the birth certificate you can take him to court for child support, they will make him take a dna test. it also sounds like you have a bit of post pardum depression. i would talk to your dr about that. do you have any friends or family that can help you?
First off, there is no way he can get custody. Unless you are a crazy drug addict and a drunk, and it sure doesn't sound like you are. Second, he sounds selfish. he obviously isn't ready to be a daddy. I was a single mom for a long time, and its hard at first. But you can do it. Women are far stronger than they gives themselfs credit for 9 times out of 10.
For reals, Can't I just be pregnant and have that be bad enough? PIOG
- demlilkit
on Feb. 11, 2012 at 3:39 PM