its so easy to tell someone, but do you think you could actually do it?

[504bbymami]

Its so easy to tell someone " just get over him. Just completly delete him out of your life and move on. Its the right thing to do."

But does anyone honestly believe that someone can just do that?? If you really love someone, can you just STOP. Just no longer love the person because you shouldn't.

I mean sure, you can not talk to the person and not be involved with the person but that doesn't change the emotion behind it. Does it? Just because you "delete the person", you can't delete them from your mind and heart.

[Mrs.Brugger]

unfortunately i think it's very hard, especially when you have in your mind that you can prove everyone wrong...

[tazmidgiefairy]

It depends on what happeb

[kenziesmom809]

It's hard.
Your mind tells you one thing but your heart says another. It's crappy and I know how it is...

[504bbymami]

That is sooooooo true!

The whole, "but y'all just don't understand him like I do"....yea.

Quoting Mrs.Brugger:

unfortunately i think it's very hard, especially when you have in your mind that you can prove everyone wrong...

[Livinwith3boys]

Oh god, seriously, Glitter fuck isn't all that great...and your obsession of him is played out...go take care of your hubs and babies...

[JacksMom1221]

It takes time. I was with my ex for 6 yrs, was in love with him. It was a very unhealthy relationship tho. It's been yrs since we split but he still.crosses my mind from time to.time. I don't want to be with him, am extremely happy with df, but sometimes a landmark or song or store reminds me of an occasion or something.with him. It takes time.

[mommyjenn84]

Nope,
But sometimes you don't have a choice

[mommyjenn84]

Thats not really necessary.
Shes heard it enough and it doesn't help.

Quoting Livinwith3boys:

Oh god, seriously, Glitter fuck isn't all that great...and your obsession of him is played out...go take care of your hubs and babies...

[charliebean]

Word. It bothers me when people say that. Like, you cannot simply "just get over it". It's not nearly that easy.

[TristaB]

I have given that advice, and also followed it. ( to the best of my ability) there has been no contact for over a year, BUT, I think about him all the time, and even have dreams hes in. But I know for a fact, he is one of the unhealthiest,selfish, soul sucking people, he could NEVER be a strong head of household man, never take care of a kid or family, and couldn't be faithful.... but there is something magnetic about him to me.

But like I said, I haven't seen or spoken to him in over a year, and will keep it that way for the rest of my life.