really? thats how you feel?

[Zacksmama82411]

normally dh is all lovey dovey, and we usually spend all day sundays together, since i work saturdays. well i got out of work early saturday so i could come home and spend time with him and ds, he had cleaned the house and i thanked him from the bottom of my heart, and then he took a 3 hour nap. ok, thats cool, i dont mind, your tired... then he got mad at me for 'waking him up' i didnt. then yesterday, he slept all day, and was an asshole again last night because i didnt make dinner right away. this morning he tried to get it on with me and it hurts from behind since zack is only 5 mns old, its not exactly my favorite, because its still healing. so he got madat me and said ok, never mind... wtf? now hes totally not himself and i have no idea why and its driving me crazy!!

[mjellis718]

Stress at work? Must be something bothering him. This is why men should be more open about their feelings. They act like little children when they are stressed or mad and you don't know what's going on or how to help. Just try to ask if everything's okay. Good luck!

[later.tater]

Sooooooo true

Quoting mjellis718:

Stress at work? Must be something bothering him. This is why men should be more open about their feelings. They act like little children when they are stressed or mad and you don't know what's going on or how to help. Just try to ask if everything's okay. Good luck!

[Zacksmama82411]

so i talked to him and he said that one of the other dudes have been slacking and hes been having to pick up all the slack and hes just not happy with work... we used to have a 'vent sesh' right after he got out of work and we haven't had time to have it in a few days, so tonight im gonna make sure he gets it! lol i just had to vent, im sorry! thank you for listening :)

Quoting mjellis718:

Stress at work? Must be something bothering him. This is why men should be more open about their feelings. They act like little children when they are stressed or mad and you don't know what's going on or how to help. Just try to ask if everything's okay. Good luck!

[LilMamaK]

I'm sorry hun! I saw the post where you had talked with him and he's having a hard time at work. I hope things get better!

[TheBabyFactory4]

Hope he feels better. I hate it when dh gets cranky cuz of work.

[Zacksmama82411]

thank u :) i think its going to get much better :) he just needs to get it all out, hes one of those guys who cant keep it bottled in lol

Quoting LilMamaK:

I'm sorry hun! I saw the post where you had talked with him and he's having a hard time at work. I hope things get better!

[Zacksmama82411]

thanks! same here, dh used to own an autobody shop, but sold it to get out of the stress, so i think hes just massively frustrated

Quoting TheBabyFactory4:

Hope he feels better. I hate it when dh gets cranky cuz of work.

[GirlWSlingshot]

 Good for you for asking him what's wrong instead of being passive aggressive! And good for him for being honest with you and with himself about where the anger is coming from! I'm glad you guys were able to sort it out. Hopefully getting all the frustration out will help him be a cuddlier partner.

 *fingers crossed you have a better night tonight*

[Zacksmama82411]

thank you :) thats the best thing about us, that we vent and let it all out, we never fight and when we do, we get over it quickly, sometimes a girls just gotta vent though :) he actually apologized too ;) lol tonight ill have dinner ready for him when he walks through the door lol

Quoting GirlWSlingshot:

 Good for you for asking him what's wrong instead of being passive aggressive! And good for him for being honest with you and with himself about where the anger is coming from! I'm glad you guys were able to sort it out. Hopefully getting all the frustration out will help him be a cuddlier partner.

 *fingers crossed you have a better night tonight*

[TempestRayne]

Hope everything chills out soon.