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*spanking* piog

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:25 PM
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do you ever do it??

i saw something in another group. sparked my curiosity, in some states apparentally its considered child abuse. one of my SILs lives in a state where its not allowed but she says she had to sign papers saying teachers/principal couldnt touch her kids. that part ive never heard of. i though it was illegai in all states for school staff to touch children.

also i spoke with my therapist about it the other day. he says nothing is wrong with a spank on the butt or tap on the fingers.thoughts/opinions on the topic??

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proud_mamaof3
by New Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:32 PM
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yes we do spank in my household and will continue i was spanked and i just fine 

WesleysMom0627
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:35 PM

We spank also.

kwaziikitten
by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:36 PM
My friend is a teacher & many schools in Louisiana still spank and paddle unless a parent says no. I plan on not spanking but ill never say never because im a first time mom so I have no experience :)
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momma_sam
by Samantha on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:37 PM
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Quoting proud_mamaof3:

yes we do spank in my household and will continue i was spanked and i just fine 

i was spanked as a child too. i see nothing wrong with spanking, i just dont think it should always be used. it can make small kids more agressive. but occasionally if my son does something that could hurt himself he gets a small swat on the butt. id rather do that than see him get into something he could seriousally hurt himself ex. trying to play with the tv or trying to mess with the cord to the lamp.

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momma_sam
by Samantha on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:38 PM
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i dont believe its a teachers place to spank a child. period.

Quoting kwaziikitten:

My friend is a teacher & many schools in Louisiana still spank and paddle unless a parent says no. I plan on not spanking but ill never say never because im a first time mom so I have no experience :)


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m4m4j
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:38 PM
At least u didn't say never... I said never and I was WRONG!


Quoting kwaziikitten:

My friend is a teacher & many schools in Louisiana still spank and paddle unless a parent says no. I plan on not spanking but ill never say never because im a first time mom so I have no experience :)

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WesleysMom0627
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:39 PM


Quoting m4m4j:

At least u didn't say never... I said never and I was WRONG!


Quoting kwaziikitten:

My friend is a teacher & many schools in Louisiana still spank and paddle unless a parent says no. I plan on not spanking but ill never say never because im a first time mom so I have no experience :)

same

momma_sam
by Samantha on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:40 PM


Quoting WesleysMom0627:

We spank also.

i do as well just not hard. i just want my ds to learn "mommy said no, i guess i really shouldnt be do that"

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Baby_Avas_Momma
by Elizabeth on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:40 PM
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Since dd is only 11 months, there is no need for it right now. We don't plan on it in the future tho, we both grew up being spanked and just have really bad and hurtful feelings towards it.
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m4m4j
by Bronze Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 5:41 PM
We spank too
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