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Caught what you were saying in the background of the video...

Posted by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 4:30 PM
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As you know, I was feeling pretty down this morning, but I have been feeling much much better. Thanks to you ladies.

I get on facebook, and view a sweet video of my sil's son, and in the background I notice fil talking about me and dh, about how dh missed out on life and never got to do anything etc.

It really just has me upset. What they don't know is that it's a choice we both made. It's our life and if we were able to do it all again we would.

Dh also wanted to marry me before dd1 was even created...even before we dated.


...the things you hear when you don't want to.

by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 4:30 PM
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coupon_ash_back
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:00 PM

:/

StarryRain
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:07 PM
Damn. I'd be furious, and totally hurt!!! And a bit confrontational!
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mjellis718
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:08 PM
:( I'd talk to FIL about it. If you're like me you won't be able to move past it until you've confronted it. Better to know the truth than have him talk about you behind your back. So sorry that ruined your morning!
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RoxyJI
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:11 PM
My mil is EXACTLY the same way...she hates my guts.
She also tells ppl that my kids aren't dh's.lmfao if you saw them you'd laugh tooo.
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coupon_ash_back
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:11 PM

I'm not that thrilled with any of dh's family in the first place so this makes it worse. :/ I think i'll need to wait a while before bringing it up because i'm so mad. He's also the type that thinks he is right about everything, even if he's wrong and no one can tell him otherwise.

Quoting mjellis718:

:( I'd talk to FIL about it. If you're like me you won't be able to move past it until you've confronted it. Better to know the truth than have him talk about you behind your back. So sorry that ruined your morning!


coupon_ash_back
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:14 PM

wow, that's messed up. I think dh's family thought that way too when I got pregnant with dd1.

In-laws....smh.

Quoting RoxyJI:

My mil is EXACTLY the same way...she hates my guts.
She also tells ppl that my kids aren't dh's.lmfao if you saw them you'd laugh tooo.


prdmomnarmywife
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:16 PM
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I would post a lovely comment under the video ,but after allowing dh to hear it first .
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coupon_ash_back
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:16 PM

i'm trying to get over it, but I haven't been so hurt in a really long time.

The last time was kind of silly. Fil put a status on his fb along the lines of "I'm cleaning out my friends list, just people who aren't adding value to my life, and i'm obviously not adding to theirs"...I got deleted, and not his other daughter-in-law. So I took it personal :p

Quoting StarryRain:

Damn. I'd be furious, and totally hurt!!! And a bit confrontational!


RoxyJI
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:16 PM
Exactly. Luckily, my dh knows shes a whack job and is by my side 100 %. How does your dh react?

Quoting coupon_ash_back:

wow, that's messed up. I think dh's family thought that way too when I got pregnant with dd1.

In-laws....smh.


Quoting RoxyJI:

My mil is EXACTLY the same way...she hates my guts.

She also tells ppl that my kids aren't dh's.lmfao if you saw them you'd laugh tooo.


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xo.MommyW.xo
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:17 PM

I wouldn care
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