It's just me, DF, and our 7 month old DS. So it's not like we take up a whole lot of room.
Anyway, my brother in laws are the most sloppy most biggest slobs I know!! They leave their dishes in the sink constantly and leave whatever other messes they make behind.
MIL works 12 hrs a day everyday other then sun and mon.
Well everytime she comes home and if there's a mess laying around, DF & I are the ones who get blamed. Mainly me though, cause DF works full time and I'm home with my son.
She never gets upset at her two younger sons because she swears they are the cleanest kids ever!!!
When she's home, they vacum and help her out but when she's not home, they leave their mess for ME to clean because they know I'll clean it up. ONLY reason why I clean up after them is because I don't want their mom to have to come home to a sink full of dishes after a 12 hr shift. It's so hard for me to clean up after myself let alone them!
I've never been messy but after I had DS its kind of difficult to get house work done but I still do it. It sucks that I have to clean up after my BIL's as well! There are times where I skip a meal or two because I'm just sooo busy with my DS.. I don't have the time to make myself anything. So at the end of the day I really don't want to have to wash my BIL's dishes or clean up after them PERIOD. They're big boys.
Ive tried to tell them over and over again to clean up after themselves but they do NOT listen!!!
I talked to DF about it and he's talked to them but they don't listen to him either. I tried to talking to my MIL but her boys lie to her and try to act all innocent and who does she believe,? Them! Of course. She thinks her sons are the best boys around!!
Which I dont blame her.. But she needs to stop believing everything they say. It's kind of sad how oblivious she is.
Anyway! I can't wait to move out. DF is working hard and I'm looking for a job to help save but haven't gotten any call backs. Crossing my fingers!
The sooner we get out of here, the better.
& you better believe I will teach my son how to clean up after himself and we will enforce that.