I haven't been wearing my wedding ring because my fingers are way too swollen which had never happened in any of my pregnancies but this time it did. Anyway, I usually have another opal ring that I wear on my wedding finger just because I can't stand to have that finger naked.
Well I've been leaving it off a lot lately and I've noticed a lot of "looks" when I'm out with my two young girls and my big ol belly but who cares, I know I'm married and it's no ones business if I'm not anyway.
Well today a lady finally said something to me. "oh you poor girl, how are you going to handle all of your kids by yourself"
F off lady was all I could think. I just said "don't judge woman"
Now thinking back, she didn't say anything "mean" but the tone was under her words. And it irritate me that she would even have the need to say something like that to a complete stranger.